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48. Then she doesn't warrant your confidence, and wouldn't be good for you.

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Dear DU, I would like you to keep me in your thoughts, good vibes or prayers. I had a mammogram that showed abnormal, [View all] debm55 Nov 2025 OP

All my best wishes, deb... hlthe2b Nov 2025 #1

Thank you,hlthe2b. I am nervous. debm55 Nov 2025 #4

Sending you positive thoughts and good energy Deb. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #2

Thank you very much, Irish-Dem. debm55 Nov 2025 #5

Many of us have had false positive mammograms. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #10

Oh I didn't know there could be false positives. I hope that is it. Thank you Irish_Dem. debm55 Nov 2025 #13

Oh yes. A number of my friends have had them too. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #16

I had several false positives before the switch to digital dflprincess Nov 2025 #88

When digital came out I think the radiologists had problems reading the new X-rays. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #142

debm55, I work in radiology. Laffy Kat Nov 2025 #205

Thank you very much, Laffy Kay.Yes, My regular doctor. called for the bloodwork and tests. I have had this type of mammo debm55 Nov 2025 #210

Yep I sure have. Leads to lots of anxiety. róisín_dubh Nov 2025 #92

Yes alot of anxiety. Thank you.roisin_dudh. debm55 Nov 2025 #110

I had one a couple of years ago. redstatebluegirl Nov 2025 #190

Thank you redstatebluegirl . I am scared because I watched an aunt and two cousins on mother's side of the family. I debm55 Nov 2025 #192

Me too dear... redstatebluegirl Nov 2025 #195

Will do and good luck, thoughts, vibes and prayers! biophile Nov 2025 #3

Thank you very much, biophile. debm55 Nov 2025 #8

Did you happen to get a flu or Covid shot recently DaBronx Nov 2025 #6

I had a Covid and Flu in August.One in each arm. They told me I would receive the results tomorrow from the radiologist. debm55 Nov 2025 #9

Best wishes Deb. Easterncedar Nov 2025 #7

Thank you Eastercedar. debm55 Nov 2025 #11

Sending you my prayers for good results. brer cat Nov 2025 #12

Thank you very much, brer cat. debm55 Nov 2025 #14

I'll think good thoughts for you, Deb Diamond_Dog Nov 2025 #15

Thank you very much for your kind words. I am glad your sister's turned okay. I am also glad you are a survivor. Love, debm55 Nov 2025 #17

Deb, even if the tests find something there Diamond_Dog Nov 2025 #21

And I am very glad you are. I lost two cousins and one aunt on the material side to breast cancer. I am glad you are debm55 Nov 2025 #25

Of course. Harker Nov 2025 #18

Thank you very much, Harker. debm55 Nov 2025 #26

We'll take 'em as they come. Harker Nov 2025 #34

Thank you my friend. I wish I had a mother to discuss this with, She is alive but would somehow blame this on me. debm55 Nov 2025 #45

Then she doesn't warrant your confidence, and wouldn't be good for you. Harker Nov 2025 #48

Definitely calling on The Source for you. CanonRay Nov 2025 #19

Thank you very much, CanonRay. Love, Deb. debm55 Nov 2025 #36

All the best to you, Deb Lefta Dissenter Nov 2025 #20

Thank you very much, Lefta Dissenter. for your kind words. debm55 Nov 2025 #46

I'm so sorry you are going through this uncertainty. Emile Nov 2025 #22

Thank you very much. Emile. debm55 Nov 2025 #112

I pray it's nothing, debm55 🙏🏼 You are in my meditations of hope 💚 Clouds Passing Nov 2025 #23

Thank you very much Clouds Passing. debm55 Nov 2025 #113

Sending prayers your way for the best possible outcome for those tests! woodsprite Nov 2025 #24

Thank you very much, woodsprite with that information. debm55 Nov 2025 #118

Hoping for the best deb underpants Nov 2025 #27

Thank you very much, underpants. debm55 Nov 2025 #119

Best of luck to you, debm. greatauntoftriplets Nov 2025 #28

Thank you very much, greatauntoftriplets. debm55 Nov 2025 #120

Best wishes. My wife had similar fears and ended up with a clean bill of health. NNadir Nov 2025 #29

Thank you very much, NNadir for those encouraging words. debm55 Nov 2025 #122

Hang in there! Ocelot II Nov 2025 #30

Thanks Ocelot II debm55 Nov 2025 #123

All the best, Deb. You are in the thoughts of many, many people! Whyisthisstillclose Nov 2025 #31

Yes they are my family and I love you all. Thank you whyisthisstillclose. debm55 Nov 2025 #124

Oh, Deb, I hate that this is happening. I know the stress Polly Hennessey Nov 2025 #32

Thank you very much Polly Hennessey. Thank you my friend. debm55 Nov 2025 #125

Sending Reiki Healing to you. no_hypocrisy Nov 2025 #33

Oh, no_hypocrisy. thank you very much my DU friend. debm55 Nov 2025 #127

You got it! I'm with you 💕 MLAA Nov 2025 #35

Thank you very much, MLAA. debm55 Nov 2025 #126

Sending you my very best DU vibes Wicked Blue Nov 2025 #37

Love you and thanks Wicked Blue. debm55 Nov 2025 #128

You'll be in my prayers. area51 Nov 2025 #38

Thank you very much, area51. debm55 Nov 2025 #41

🫂 mwmisses4289 Nov 2025 #39

Thank you very much, mwmisses4289. debm55 Nov 2025 #40

Oh no! pandr32 Nov 2025 #42

Thank you my dear pandr32. Love, deb debm55 Nov 2025 #129

Thinking of you. LittleGirl Nov 2025 #43

Thank you very much. Little girl. debm55 Nov 2025 #133

Sending vibes now... nuxvomica Nov 2025 #44

Thank you nuxvomica. debm55 Nov 2025 #134

Good on you for getting your check up as soon as you felt change. So many factors could be in play Deuxcents Nov 2025 #47

I have been very stressed out. Husband has malignant prostrate cancer. and have an abusive family asking for favors. I debm55 Nov 2025 #196

hoping for the best of outcomes AltairIV Nov 2025 #49

Hope that all goes well. PittBlue Nov 2025 #50

Thank you very much, PittBlue. debm55 Nov 2025 #174

Best Wishes to you, Deb DeeDeeNY Nov 2025 #51

Thank you very much, DeeDeeNY. debm55 Nov 2025 #175

"" AllaN01Bear Nov 2025 #52

Thank you Bear debm55 Nov 2025 #176

Good vibes to you! ZDU Nov 2025 #53

My mom survived breast cancer twice, deb. True Dough Nov 2025 #54

Thank you True Dough. debm55 Nov 2025 #178

My heart goes out to you, my dear debm55. All my best vibes and hopes are now yours! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2025 #55

Sending prayers cate94 Nov 2025 #56

Dear Deb, Already enormously in your favor is that you got initial screening. These follow up KitFox Nov 2025 #57

We're all with you Deb! Endlessmike56 Nov 2025 #58

Sending love and good vibes to you dear Deb Grim Chieftain Nov 2025 #59

Sending positive thoughts to you karin_sj Nov 2025 #60

Sending all my good vibes to you!! chowder66 Nov 2025 #61

Hoping for the best possible outcome angrychair Nov 2025 #62

You will be in my prayers, debm55. lapucelle Nov 2025 #63

My best to you and your family. It's a shock to hear of abnormal mamograms riversedge Nov 2025 #64

Sending hugs and support Deb. I always get called livetohike Nov 2025 #65

100% positive prayers for you, deb. May all the good angels watch over you and all the LoisB Nov 2025 #66

Stay hopeful Katcat Nov 2025 #67

Deb, sending you positive thoughts and prayers. lucca18 Nov 2025 #68

I prayed for you. This is very scary, I know. Faced this in my own family. They can do a lot today. Joinfortmill Nov 2025 #69

Deb, I wish you the very best! hamsterjill Nov 2025 #70

Prayers are coming your way! 🙏💗 BittyJenkins Nov 2025 #71

You have my thoughts and prayers, Debm55! OAITW r.2.0 Nov 2025 #72

Best wishes to you and lots of love. Erda Nov 2025 #73

Wishing you the best, Deb JoseBalow Nov 2025 #74

Good vibes on the way! Shambala Nov 2025 #75

Sincerely wishing rustysgurl Nov 2025 #76

You are always such a positive supporting force on DU. markodochartaigh Nov 2025 #77

We are all with you on this. OLDMDDEM Nov 2025 #78

Best Wishes waterwatcher123 Nov 2025 #79

Debbie, we will all be with you, not just tomorrow, JMCKUSICK Nov 2025 #80

Sending good vibes orangecrush Nov 2025 #81

Good luck Deb jfz9580m Nov 2025 #82

You got it Deb! subterranean Nov 2025 #83

We're with you Wild blueberry Nov 2025 #84

all the best thoughts to you onethatcares Nov 2025 #85

Hoping for good results with the new tests FemDemERA Nov 2025 #86

I hope so too. Thank you very much, FemDemERA. debm55 Nov 2025 #108

Best of luck, Deb! LNM Nov 2025 #87

Thank you very much for your kindness. LMN. debm55 Nov 2025 #106

You certainly have our good wishes. Best of luck and good fortune. Safe as Milk Nov 2025 #89

Thank you very much Safe as Milk. debm55 Nov 2025 #105

Sending positive energy and prayers godsentme Nov 2025 #90

Bless you godsentme. debm55 Nov 2025 #104

wishing all the best debm55! barbtries Nov 2025 #91

Thank you, barbtries. I will. debm55 Nov 2025 #103

Bless you, Deb - colorado_ufo Nov 2025 #93

Thank you very much, colorado_ufo. debm55 Nov 2025 #102

I've said a prayer for you. Dorothy V Nov 2025 #94

Thank you very much, Dorothy V. debm55 Nov 2025 #101

Take Care Deb MacKasey Nov 2025 #95

Thank you MacKasey. I am thinking of the hymn. Be Not Afraid. debm55 Nov 2025 #100

Hoping for a false positive (common) justaprogressive Nov 2025 #96

I am hoping for that too, Thank you very much justaprogressive. debm55 Nov 2025 #99

Done. Wishing you the best. sinkingfeeling Nov 2025 #97

Thank you very much, sinkingfeeling. debm55 Nov 2025 #98

Sending you good thoughts and vibes, Debbie Niagara Nov 2025 #107

Thank you my dear friend Niagara. I use Dove Soap and my detergent is non perfumed, I have had this for awhile. I got my debm55 Nov 2025 #109

Holding you in my heart, deb. Stay strong, you're not alone. n/t TygrBright Nov 2025 #111

Good vibes KT2000 Nov 2025 #114

Sending healing hugs and prayers. gademocrat7 Nov 2025 #115

I hope you are ok. Praying for you! I know it's scary. 58Sunliner Nov 2025 #116

I wish you the very best, Deb. The same thing happened to my wife six years ago. rsdsharp Nov 2025 #117

Sending good vibes your way, Deb. LudwigPastorius Nov 2025 #121

Thank you for your vibes, LudwigPastorius. debm55 Nov 2025 #131

Healing vibes to you, Deb WhiteTara Nov 2025 #130

Hello debm55 pdxflyboy Nov 2025 #132

Here's hoping for am imaging artifact fargone Nov 2025 #135

Oh Deb...sending you tranquil, positive vibes in calming shades of blue!! 🧿💙🌌🌏🌌 CrispyQ Nov 2025 #136

I hope it's nothing 🙏🙏 sending a hug 💙 TommieMommy Nov 2025 #137

Deb retiredwelder Nov 2025 #138

Hugs, deb. Sending all of the vibes. We love you. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Nov 2025 #139

Deb, you are always in my thoughts, heart, and prayers now, as you go through your travels w/ this issue. SWBTATTReg Nov 2025 #140

Good thoughts headed your way! rurallib Nov 2025 #141

As I recently told CaliforniaPeggy, I will have positive thoughts for negative results. Buddyzbuddy Nov 2025 #143

You have our best wishes Deb. boonecreek Nov 2025 #144

Hugs to ya, deb... MiHale Nov 2025 #145

Just picked this up, deb peggysue2 Nov 2025 #146

I have also had an abnormal mammogram that turned out to be nothing. HeartsCanHope Nov 2025 #147

Sending positive vibes your way! Mad_Dem_X Nov 2025 #148

Isn't it wonderful the support you get from this site? Katinfl Nov 2025 #149

You're in my thoughts Laurelin Nov 2025 #150

Best of Luck, Deb ProfessorGAC Nov 2025 #151

I forgot to add Laurelin Nov 2025 #152

Max good vibes on their way debm55!!! IA8IT Nov 2025 #153

Thank you very much, IA8IT debm55 Nov 2025 #160

will do discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2025 #154

Thank you very much, discntnt_irny_srcsm. debm55 Nov 2025 #159

Good vibes and thoughts to you, Deb Bayard Nov 2025 #155

Thank you Bayard, They said I should have the results tomorrow. debm55 Nov 2025 #158

Positive vibes for you! Mayo Clinic says that swollen lymph glands are not an immediate threat to life, see here: Exp Nov 2025 #156

Thank you very much, Exp debm55 Nov 2025 #157

Most definitely, you are in my thoughts! Trueblue Texan Nov 2025 #161

Thank you very much Trueblue Texan. debm55 Nov 2025 #163

Hoping for a false positive Tesha Nov 2025 #162

Me too. Thank you Tesha. debm55 Nov 2025 #164

All available good vibes are headed your way! OldBaldy1701E Nov 2025 #165

Healing vibes on the way to you, Deb SheltieLover Nov 2025 #166

Many are focusing GOOD VIBES on you dear lady. Sneederbunk Nov 2025 #167

We're with you, Deb. choie Nov 2025 #168

Thank you very much. choie. debm55 Nov 2025 #171

Deb, I have been there. TNNurse Nov 2025 #169

Thank you very much for your kind words, TNNurse. debm55 Nov 2025 #170

Good luck WmChris Nov 2025 #172

Thank you very much.WmChris debm55 Nov 2025 #173

Well wishes from 173 people, so far, so you know that your friends here on DU are pulling for you and your family. FadedMullet Nov 2025 #177

Thank you very much. Faded Mullet. debm55 Nov 2025 #180

Hoping for nothing but the best for you! nt spooky3 Nov 2025 #179

All the best debm55. My thoughts and prayers are for your complete recovery to good health. Fla Dem Nov 2025 #181

Thoughts and prayers on their way.❤️🙏 surfered Nov 2025 #182

You're going to be fine either way. Ligyron Nov 2025 #183

Hopefully you'll have good news tomorrow. My DW went through this last year and after walkingman Nov 2025 #184

Very best wishes to you, Deb MorbidButterflyTat Nov 2025 #185

Good vibes going your way. Beacool Nov 2025 #186

Hoping for good news for you, best wishes. (n/t) Moostache Nov 2025 #187

Thank you, they told me I would have the rests tomorrow. debm55 Nov 2025 #194

Keeping you in my thoughts sweet Deb. redstatebluegirl Nov 2025 #188

Thank you very much redstatebluegirl. debm55 Nov 2025 #193

All of our best Wishes! MalcolmNance Nov 2025 #189

Thank you very much MalcolmNance. To add emojis , hit classic smilies. You can't put in the title (this) There are debm55 Nov 2025 #191

Hello Malcolm Niagara Nov 2025 #200

Wrap our softest, coziest hugs around you, Deb dear some_of_us_are_sane Nov 2025 #197

Hang in there, debm55. Best wishes. (nt) Paladin Nov 2025 #198

Sending good vibes DownriverDem Nov 2025 #199

Dear debm55, I am sending you good vibes and MIButterfly Nov 2025 #201

Au certainement. marble falls Nov 2025 #202

You got it. Botany Nov 2025 #203

Sending hugs. BlueKota Nov 2025 #204

Early AM tomorrow, I and 20 others will be praying for you and the hospital staff who care for you. ancianita Nov 2025 #206

Praying that good vibes from your DU family will carry sueh Nov 2025 #207

Will keep you in thoughts MNRPh Nov 2025 #208

Prayers and healing vibes to you deb berniesandersmittens Nov 2025 #209

Aw, geeebz! Hoping for a much milder medical reason than the scary one! electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #211

Sending you love, good vibes and prayers, sweet Deb. wordstroken Nov 2025 #212

Best wishes. CentralMass Nov 2025 #213

You betcha, sweetie! calimary Nov 2025 #214

Oh dear wendyb-NC Nov 2025 #215

Dear Deb milestogo Nov 2025 #216

Wishing you all the best. I know how agonizing the wait for a diagnosis is. SunSeeker Nov 2025 #217

Sending my hopes for health and healing Tumbulu Nov 2025 #218

Zay gezunt! Behind the Aegis Nov 12 #219

Sending lots of thoughts, good vibes and prayers Deb mvd Nov 12 #220

Sending hugs mokeyz Nov 12 #221

Sending positive energy your way debm55 oasis Nov 12 #222

Oh shit!!! BigmanPigman Nov 12 #223

Scary.. Permanut Nov 12 #224

Love, light Sugarcoated Nov 12 #225

Debm, you are in my thoughts. I am hoping for the best news for you. Nt Ilikepurple Nov 12 #226

Oh my! malaise Nov 12 #227

Good luck, Deb. catbyte Nov 12 #228

Sending with you, DebM55 dlilafae Nov 12 #229

Oh no debm55, ♥️ 🙏🏻 ♥️ 🙏🏻 ♥️ 🙏🏻 a kennedy Nov 12 #230