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lonely bird

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Tue Mar 3, 2026, 06:48 PM Tuesday

Asking for some good vibes and prayers [View all]

Mrs. Bird has gone through a long stretch of pain. She had adult scoliosis correction in February of 2023. About a year later she had pain going down her right leg to her foot. We saw the doctor who did the surgery and after x-rays determined that the rods and screws (32 screws and 4 rods) were where they supposed to be. Suggested she see the pain doctor. So, we did. She had several injections some of which provided a bit of relief and some which didn’t. Pain and weakness became worse which necessitated going from a walking stick to a walker.

Our CNP suggested going outside our normal hospital/medical group to get fresh eyes on the problem. So we made an appointment. New spine doc took extensive history and asked many questions. He ordered an x-ray. When we saw it he noted that the scoliosis correction had been done very well. The back isn’t the problem. She needs a new hip. Surgery is scheduled for March 13. Basically, the ball has collapsed and is almost square shaped.

My wife has had a history of back issues that started with a blown out disc due to sneezing. After the micro lumbar discectomy in about 1987 or so she needed spinal decompression in 2016. One nerve was so flattened going through the vertebra that the sheaf was tearing. Within the next two weeks of that surgery she had two infections (one was staph) that required going back in to clean them out. That caused her scoliosis to really go nuts.

What she wants out of this is just to be able to walk without pain.

Thanks for listening.

Lonely Bird

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Best of luck with your situation. OAITW r.2.0 Tuesday #1
Healing vibes head to your wife Lifeafter70 Tuesday #2
Healing vibes on the way SheltieLover Tuesday #3
And from me! ++++++++ spooky3 Tuesday #11
... SheltieLover Tuesday #12
Yuk SuzyandPuffpuff Tuesday #4
Sending my best thoughts UpInArms Tuesday #5
My best wishes to Mrs. Bird, and to you as well. LuckyCharms Tuesday #6
Your wife has done everything to relieve this pain and as extensive as hip surgery is, I hope it's the answer Deuxcents Tuesday #7
Sending strength and healing democrank Tuesday #8
Sending healing vibes to your wife, lonely bird. sheshe2 Tuesday #9
Peace, strength, and rest wishes for you. quaint Tuesday #10
She has endured so much already jmbar2 Tuesday #13
Sending good lounge vibes! Phentex Tuesday #14
Sending... 2naSalit Tuesday #15
From personal experience, collapsed hip repair was a piece of cake...though I did not have the other issues. joanbarnes Tuesday #16
Holding you and Mrs. Bird in light and love. Vibes for swift and niyad Tuesday #17
I will add both of you to my prayer list.lonely bird. debm55 Tuesday #18
Best wishes IbogaProject Tuesday #19
May good vibes stage left Tuesday #20
Hip surgery has advanced a LOT in the past few years. My wife had it done yesterday, and was walking later in the day. SeattleVet Tuesday #21
YES!! It's not the big scary ordeal one would think it is!! Leghorn21 Tuesday #27
Aw, man! I'm so sorry to hear what you two are going through! calimary Tuesday #22
Wishing Mrs Bird and you all the best. badhair77 Tuesday #23
Sending good vibes sdfernando Tuesday #24
Pain is hell, I'm sorry she's going through this. cate94 Tuesday #25
Dear Bird!!!!! My brother has two great friends who both had their hips replaced after years of misery!!! Leghorn21 Tuesday #26
""" AllaN01Bear Tuesday #28
Good vibes and best wishes! Whyisthisstillclose Tuesday #29
oh my Skittles Tuesday #30
Sending healing vibes to Mrs. Bird. virgdem Tuesday #31
Prayers and best wishes for both of you JohnnyLib2 Tuesday #32
Sending best wishes and healing vibes for your wife from the great state of Michigan. MIButterfly Tuesday #33
Chronic pain sucks! All the best for your wife irisblue Tuesday #34
Praying for an excellent outcome for Mrs. Bird Tanuki Tuesday #35
I am so sorry. I hope her pain-free days come very soon. LoisB Tuesday #36
Sending good vibes, lonely bird! senseandsensibility Tuesday #37
Sending vibes for your wife and a hug for you MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #38
Praying that Mrs. Bird flies through this surgery and walks with no discomfort. hamsterjill Tuesday #39
My struggles pale in comparison. All I know is that BootinUp Tuesday #40
Praying for you and Mrs. Bird JMCKUSICK Tuesday #41
Healing vibes and prayers for her, and hugs for both of you. highplainsdem Tuesday #42
Healing vibes to your beloved wife... 3catwoman3 Tuesday #43
Glad to hear that the back is no longer the problem. I've had live love laugh Tuesday #44
You know, it's almost as hard on Tesha Tuesday #45
Peace, Healing, Renewal, Joy Donkees Wednesday #46
Everybody... lonely bird Wednesday #47
💐🫶🏽 blm Wednesday #48
Holding you and your wife in my heart for healing and wholeness. Pain is a difficult challenge indeed. n/t TygrBright Wednesday #49
Empathy and healing energies going out to your wife... slightlv Wednesday #50
Sending Emerald Green Healing Light to surround your wife. Bread and Circuses Wednesday #51
I am sending them right now! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Wednesday #52
Best wishes . . . otchmoson Wednesday #53
All the best to your wife. PittBlue Wednesday #54
Healing 💚Love ❤️ Light 💛 to Mrs Bird. Comfort 🧡 to you lonely bird Clouds Passing Wednesday #55
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