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NNadir

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12. I understand your point but my son's actions are not meant to sustain a system of justice...
Tue Jun 30, 2026, 12:17 PM
Yesterday

...or to erode the need for it, but rather to resist a system of injustice. It is not that the crime is inconsequential but that the possible consequences are potentially inappropriately draconian. The punishment would be inappropriate for the crime.

We left debtors prisons behind centuries ago.

Interestingly my son spent a summer in China on an art grant, and was impressed by the order of the country as well as the kindness of the citizens and the ancient beauty of the culture.

If she goes back to China and lives as she is doing here, she may face consequences appropriate to her offense.

I don't mean this as an endorsement of the Chinese dictatorship, but not all facets are without merit.

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You raised him well NNadir, he knows right from wrong. KS Toronado Yesterday #1
You and your wife did a great job rearing him. niyad Yesterday #2
I sincerely hope the person comes through and pays the rent. hamsterjill Yesterday #3
You should be malaise Yesterday #4
Heh. Four thousand dollars. 'Petty theft'. For some, that is more than has been seen in years. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Yesterday #5
It's a fair amount of money for him to be sure but he... NNadir Yesterday #8
Good job, Mom Icanthinkformyself Yesterday #6
His compassion for his fellow human being is top notch - love how you raised him! n/t iluvtennis Yesterday #7
What a fine young man! MLAA Yesterday #9
Giving to others is wonderful but so is accepting responsibility. That woman failed to accept Wonder Why Yesterday #10
In case you didn't read the whole post... ShazzieB Yesterday #23
Much more understanding than I am. I'd be wondering how many others she has and/or will rip off! Floyd R. Turbo Yesterday #11
I understand your point but my son's actions are not meant to sustain a system of justice... NNadir Yesterday #12
What hamsterjill said in post #3 -The universe... 3catwoman3 Yesterday #13
Truly! calimary 21 hrs ago #32
I hope your son tells the landlord that this is happening FakeNoose Yesterday #14
You have that right. The landlord is a creep. NNadir Yesterday #15
Sounds possibly unsafe... if the landlord reported it. live love laugh Yesterday #16
The landlord could be a MAGAt and turn her in! Wednesdays Yesterday #20
Well no, NNadir explained (post above) that the landlord is also an immigrant herself FakeNoose Yesterday #22
Absolutely the right answer. Pinback Yesterday #17
Well, Jesus was sold out for thirty pieces of silver Wednesdays Yesterday #18
Your son is a good man... LuckyCharms Yesterday #19
Sometimes It's Hard Coolgoober Yesterday #21
speaking as a college instructor (this might not be a popular comment) cab67 Yesterday #24
I believe your son is a rich man. Dave in VA Yesterday #25
He da man ! CincyDem Yesterday #26
What a wonderful human being ! chouchou Yesterday #27
Until the facts are known it might be a good idea to reach out to this person dlk Yesterday #28
He's a good person. Joinfortmill Yesterday #29
NNadir,,,,, Upthevibe Yesterday #30
On a D.U., G.F.M. for your son, I'd chip in. 3Hotdogs 22 hrs ago #31
You have so much to be proud of! people 21 hrs ago #33
THIS is what I wish more people understood! Phentex 9 hrs ago #34
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