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Trueblue Texan

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98. My dog lost strength in her hind quarters due to...
Tue Jun 30, 2026, 01:29 PM
Jun 30

IVDD: intervertebral disc disease. That was about a year ago. The vet wanted me to put her down then, but her cognition was just fine and didn't think it was necessary. She told me I had to rest the dog completely. I did this. For 2 months I carried her out to potty, put her in her bed. My back nearly gave out from all this bending and lifting so I put her dog bed in a beach wagon so I could haul her around the house with me, out to the back yard. We put a strap around her hind quarters to position her to use the bathroom when she went outside. When she was able to walk again, we put outdoor rugs on all the pathways in the house so she didn't have to fight the laminate floors to stay upright.It was a lot of effort, but she got better. She is still with us and I don't know how much longer she will be here--she declines a bit each day, but she is a sweet old lady and we'll do what she needs. When the time comes that she needs to cross over, we will help her do that too, if we need to. It is hard to lose them. God...so hard. But I am grateful for every moment I have with her and all the moments I had with her son, before he transitioned.

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I don't know what to do. [View all] LuckyCharms Jun 29 OP
So sorry... regnaD kciN Jun 29 #1
You are not alone. We have all had devastating hurts and we can empathize with you. alwaysinasnit Jun 29 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author coprolite Jun 29 #68
I'm Very Sorry About This, LuckyCharms. That is a Lot to Go Through, Male, Female, Adult, or Child. The Roux Comes First Jun 29 #3
Dearest Lucky Niagara Jun 29 #4
Grief will always come out Easterncedar Jun 29 #5
I'm so sorry for your pain, Lucky Charms. But I am so glad that you've been part of my life erronis Jun 29 #6
The best thing about life is that it's short. Haggard Celine Jun 29 #7
Our pets are family surfered Jun 29 #8
All i have to offer you is a cyber 🫂 mwmisses4289 Jun 29 #9
I hpoe you can keep him as pain free as mtairyguy Jun 29 #10
Gladly LuckyCharms, JMCKUSICK Jun 29 #11
In the words of Hunter S. Thompson... SergeStorms Jun 29 #12
I don't know any details on you, your dog, and your dog's health. RockCreek Jun 29 #13
We love you so much, LC. I wish I could do something to ease your pain. littlemissmartypants Jun 29 #14
We can hear your pain thru your words and as the others have said, we send our deepest sadness for you Deuxcents Jun 29 #15
Trauma Is Cumulative FrankTC Jun 29 #16
Grief is debilitating but don't try to man up Keepthesoulalive Jun 29 #17
I hear you. Silver Gaia Jun 29 #18
Lucky, you're a god man..I've seen it many times in your posts.. mountain grammy Jun 29 #19
I'm sorry to hear your sad news Marthe48 Jun 29 #20
with the elder gen gone in my family , my middle sis and i feel empty AllaN01Bear Jun 29 #21
I am sorry you are experiencing this pain. I send love to you and your, good boy. ShazamIam Jun 29 #22
Prayers said for your good boy. hamsterjill Jun 29 #23
My Dad died in 2014. Eko Jun 29 #24
Your good boy is part of you, maybe even a big part of you FakeNoose Jun 29 #25
You go ahead and 'dump' away. OldBaldy1701E Jun 29 #26
In the same plane of existence... MiHale Jun 29 #27
Lucky, I am in your corner, all of us are. Prairie_Seagull Jun 29 #28
I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's always hard to lose a loved one, furry or not. chowder66 Jun 29 #29
I HATE that our furbabies have such a short lifespan... buzzycrumbhunger Jun 29 #30
This part of part of our life sucks, LC. OAITW r.2.0 Jun 29 #31
Oh sweet Lucky Unwind Your Mind Jun 29 #32
🥰 ♥️ 🥰 ♥️ 🥰 ♥️ a kennedy Jun 29 #33
Hugs to you. I hope sharing your pain and sorrow helps you. We all will help by listening and hugs. Srkdqltr Jun 29 #34
First, I prayed for you and your 'good boy'. Joinfortmill Jun 29 #35
I think you have this right. LuckyCharms Jun 29 #60
I understand. Very similar experiences and emotions. Very painful. Evolve Dammit Jun 29 #36
emotions need to be felt Kali Jun 29 #37
Holding you in my heart. You are NOT alone, many of us do understand. n/t TygrBright Jun 29 #38
I'm with you... S/V Loner Jun 29 #39
I'm so sorry. Trauma is hard to deal with Phoenix61 Jun 29 #40
Please Google "can a dog's hind legs weaken from B 12 deficiency?" xuplate Jun 29 #41
My dog lost strength in her hind quarters due to... Trueblue Texan Jun 30 #98
You are not weak. It takes strength to let yourself feel and care for others the way you do. MLAA Jun 29 #42
Previous profession... SuzyandPuffpuff Jun 29 #43
Hang in there LC. NoMoreRepugs Jun 29 #44
You're not weak, Lucky. You're strong, and caring, and because you care, saying goodbye to loved highplainsdem Jun 29 #45
I have lent an ear...listened. sprinkleeninow Jun 29 #46
Hopefully by purging and expressing, you're healing yourself. SleeplessinSoCal Jun 29 #47
I feel all your pain and pray that The Universe gives you the strength to weather LoisB Jun 29 #48
Simple reply fxp1956 Jun 29 #49
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Jun 30 #100
We have an obligation to the companion animals we have invited to share our lives. pat_k Jun 29 #50
Since the pandemic... LuckyCharms Jun 29 #51
My partner and I spent a long night "camped" on our living room floor with our K.D. on her last night. pat_k Jun 29 #61
My wife is sleeping on the couch tonight... LuckyCharms Jun 29 #65
May you all find connection and some peace tonight. pat_k Jun 29 #70
We lost 2 senior labs within days of each other a couple of years ago - TBF Jun 29 #52
My wonderful Lucky UpInArms Jun 29 #53
Sometimes... LuckyCharms Jun 29 #58
Loosing my 17 year old baby a year after my Dad BigmanPigman Jun 29 #54
I would like that information , Bigman... Trueblue Texan Jun 30 #77
Yes, I'll do that. BigmanPigman Jun 30 #90
I hear ya.. Permanut Jun 29 #55
34 years for me... LuckyCharms Jun 29 #66
I'm so glad EuterpeThelo Jun 30 #85
I'm so sorry. I have no suggestions, just a sincere wish you find some relief Scrivener7 Jun 29 #56
I'm so sorry for your pain annielion Jun 29 #57
I hear and see you Lifeafter70 Jun 29 #59
Sending you my Faux pas Jun 29 #62
I'm so sorry. Knowing that life is HARD when people actually care about people and animals and life on earth doesn't Exp Jun 29 #63
I'm both sorry and I completely understand cate94 Jun 29 #64
Keep on doing your best, amigo JoseBalow Jun 29 #67
Sorry to hear you are loosing another member of your family coprolite Jun 29 #69
My dear sweet LuckyCharms , I will continue to keep you in my rosary prayers. . Love, debm55 debm55 Jun 29 #71
Life is by no means fair or easy. Take it easy on yourself because you have given it your all . waterwatcher123 Jun 29 #72
You don't have to know what to do. Tanuki Jun 29 #73
Big hugs, and a shoulder to cry on for you, Lucky Bayard Jun 29 #74
Listen, LuckyCharms. yardwork Jun 29 #75
I am saying a prayer for you... Trueblue Texan Jun 29 #76
My heart goes out to you orangecrush Jun 30 #78
I don't really know you aside from your posts but.. BlueSpot Jun 30 #79
I feel the pain and love in your post slightlv Jun 30 #80
I'm ao sorry, Lucky Charms. HeartsCanHope Jun 30 #81
Just love him. Figarosmom Jun 30 #82
🙏 demosincebirth Jun 30 #83
I'd suggest Walkin' Wheels pet wheelchairs or something similar for him but it sounds like blue_jay Jun 30 #84
Trauma and reliving trauma Laurelin Jun 30 #86
Prayers going out NewLarry Jun 30 #87
Your blubbering is taking it like a good man TexLaProgressive Jun 30 #88
Dear, dear LuckyCharms Erda Jun 30 #89
God bless you and your beloved pup. The Human Condition is a..... ColoringFool Jun 30 #91
(((hugs))) samnsara Jun 30 #92
Love you, Lucky. Harker Jun 30 #93
Love you too, Harker. LuckyCharms Jun 30 #94
I'm sorry, but I can only manage thoughts of your Good Boy in small bursts. BobTheSubgenius Jun 30 #95
Lucky, You are absolutely WhiteTara Jun 30 #96
I'm so sorry about Tashi... LuckyCharms Jun 30 #99
As far as religion, I'm an atheist, WhiteTara Thursday #103
I'm so sorry. area51 Jun 30 #97
It's never too late for therapy. ShazzieB Jun 30 #101
Talking about it today with a trusted group.... FarPoint Jun 30 #102
No words, Lucky.... some_of_us_are_sane Thursday #104
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