Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

MADem

(135,425 posts)
6. I think, after a certain point, one has to take responsibility for oneself.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 07:48 AM
Mar 2012

If the person doesn't speak up and say "Take that shit elsewhere" then they are giving tacit consent to the conduct. People will get away with what they can get away with--it's human nature.

The roommate should have gone in the room and turned on her favorite CD of Sousa marches, or perhaps watched Alvin and the Chipmunks on television while ostentatiously video-conferencing with a friend, remarking about the rudeness/inappropriate conduct of the horny roomate and turning the camera on them, or something. I'll bet the lovebirds would have found another place to perch, if that were the case.

Two can make life miserable--it's not just all on one person. I also suspect a bit of this story might possibly be "perception" on the part of the offended party.

I should think a roommate who knocks, and who gives a bit of privacy, would be a gem to be treasured.

Recommendations

0 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Latest Discussions»Region Forums»Massachusetts»Ex-Mass. student sues col...»Reply #6