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Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 01:37 AM Sep 2012

Women who think all men are rapists. Men who think women think all men are rapists. [View all]

What women think about men who think women think all men are rapists.

What do men think, about women who think about men who think all men are rapists?

Etc.

It would appear, now, if you poke your pointy head up to challenge assertions about all men as "potential rapists", you are probably an "MRA" and, even better, odds are you yourself are a rapist! ("Seen on DU™!". )

So let's air it out, shall we?

again?

One, i highly doubt anyone on DU actually used the words "all men are rapists". Maybe, but i doubt it. A few people on DU have posted threads about all men being "potential rapists", "Schrodinger's rapist", etc. and from a purely statistical standpoint, given that most rapes are committed by men, i understand the factual basis of the statement- just as factual as saying every mother has the potential to drive her kids into a lake a la Susan Smith.

Saying something factually correct does not mean it isn't also offensive in its implications. If someone said, based on statistics, that every black male on the subway was a "potential mugger", and demanded that all these guys accept personal and collective responsibility for an alleged "mugging culture", wouldn't one expect they might get a tad offended? Maybe?

Likewise, it may be correct to assert that Dworkin, MacKinnon, etc never said "sex is rape" and left it at that. What they DID say, however, and this is taken as not just truth but an essential axiom of "Feminism 101" in (self-identified) radical feminist circles, that heterosexual penetrative sex under patriarchy is fundamentally non-consensual. Of course, "under patriarchy" means "on Planet Earth", and non-consensual ("extremely nuanced definitions of consent" notwithstanding) means, and should mean, rape.

So yes, Dworkin and MacKinnon and Brownmiller and Jeffreys and the rest DO believe that hetero penetrative sex is rape, and no they did NOT ever "retract" or otherwise "clarify" those egregious statements. If anything, as Dworkin's mental illness got worse, she "doubled down" on the insane shit she had said.

And yes, she said some insane shit:

For men I suspect that this transformation begins in the place they most dread -- that is, in a limp penis. I think that men will have to give up their precious erections and begin to make love as women do together.
-Andrea Dworkin, Our Blood (1976)


Why don't any of the erstwhile "I loves me some Andrea, Stop Picking on Andrea" defenders ever come out of the woodwork to explain how she was "grossly misquoted" there? In her own damn book? Is that statement somehow open to misrepresentation by evil conspiratorial "MRAs" who want to portray her opposition to the notion of erect penises as somehow, er, maybe a smidge out of the mainstream?

Okay, then, what the fuck does she actually MEAN there?

Please, explain it.

Let me guess: "Brilliant Swiftian Satire!"


Ah, yes, you say, but no one could really believe that shit NOW, right? Sure, in the late 80s and early 90s several college campuses were plastered with the names of random male students along with warnings about "Potential Rapist", but surely no one thinks that way, now- in 2012... right?

For it is the stated position of the Savage Death Island Chapter of Spinster Aunts International that, in a patriarchy, “consensual sex” (between women and dudes) doesn’t even exist.


Wait, what was that?

For it is the stated position of the Savage Death Island Chapter of Spinster Aunts International that, in a patriarchy, “consensual sex” (between women and dudes) doesn’t even exist.


Dworkin wrote that nutty crap about outlawing erections in 1976, you say! Surely there are no people - I mean, besides "Twisty"- today who believe that penetrative hetero intercourse is inherently harmful, or oppressive, or an artificial construct that needs to be done away with as we "smashthep" and... oh, wait.

http://radfemimages.wordpress.com/the-gears/#PIV

Um. Ah.

No, obviously, only an "MRA" would say there are people out there, blinded by an extreme cult-like ideology, who ARE calling all sex rape, and all men rapists.

No, there is no basis whatsoever for this, except for "MRA Propaganda".




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"Schrodinger's rapist" LARED Sep 2012 #1
Well, I've never thought of myself as a "potential rapist" just because I'm a man. Denninmi Sep 2012 #2
I know for a fact the vast majority of people- men and women- don't buy into that gibberish Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #5
These "MRA" accusations . Upton Sep 2012 #3
Completely typical of some of them... opiate69 Sep 2012 #11
"Critical Thinking"? 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #12
D`oh!! opiate69 Sep 2012 #13
Well written 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #4
I would add a couple things: One, I think Feminism and Womens Studies are legitimate, personally. Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #8
When you have conditioned yourself to believe that the entire human race is victimizing you... Major Nikon Sep 2012 #6
The Universe is much easier to understand if it's got a giant struggle against a singular evil Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #7
Speaking of "extremely nuanced definition of consent" lumberjack_jeff Sep 2012 #9
I just wonder where people get this stuff. Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #14
There are 1001 reasons to stop sex... shashi Sep 2012 #23
That's 4 reasons, one of which isn't exactly 'stopping' so much as switching it around. Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #24
I guess if consent is withdrawn after sex has been initiated 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #15
What this all boils down to, more often than not, is an attempt to pathologize male sexuality. Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #16
Any man who described having sex with women 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #17
I absolutely dont think that being a Feminist means hating men, i consider myself a Feminist Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #18
I don't either 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #19
I myself am trying not to assign nefarious motives or intent to fellow DU members, when possible- Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #20
That's the thing though 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #21
it don't take a whole helluva lot to get blocked from certain groups around here. Warren DeMontague Sep 2012 #22
Indeed 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #25
I swear, "Twisty" has got to be just one big troll ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2012 #26
I'm generally suspicious of any ideology rrneck Sep 2012 #10
Prominent "radfems" now want to tell lesbians how (not) to have sex, too! Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #27
Wow... opiate69 Oct 2012 #28
"Dildo culture"..? Upton Oct 2012 #29
Apparently, they can act as a "gateway drug" to an actual penis. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #30
We can't have that... Upton Oct 2012 #32
Shit... there was another "culture" I saw getting tossed around recently too... opiate69 Oct 2012 #33
Got to start keeping a list... Upton Oct 2012 #34
I'd include "problematic behavior" ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #36
These sad and sorry people live in the same hifiguy Oct 2012 #31
Unreal ProudToBeBlueInRhody Oct 2012 #35
If I were creating a parody of this mindset 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #38
History's best satirists, hifiguy Oct 2012 #40
So even lesbians enjoying sex is serving the patriarchy 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #37
Gives new meaning to the oft-used phrase from Stephen King's Dark Tower series: ZenLefty Oct 2012 #39
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