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Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 02:48 AM Dec 2012

Buried stereotypes, one example (of many) [View all]

Where to even start...

Consider the story told about men and teaching...

Teachers do not earn much in the US and there are more women than men teaching. We all agree on that, but how we EXPLAIN it tells the story of stereotypes.

The story that some people like to repeat carries all sorts of negative stereotypes about men while pushing the most generous stereotypes about women.

STORY 1 - Men consider teaching "women's work" and don't go into it because it doesn't pay enough.

THE SUBTEXT is that men are selfish and only care about money while women are selfless and nurturing.

THE REALITY is that the burden of supporting the household is still disproportionately laid on the men despite the clamors for equality. Furthermore, it is much more common for woman to refuse a potential partner because of lack of money than for men to do it to woman. If men have to go for the money, it is for those two reasons, NOT because they are less decent as human beings and it is high time we reject those malicious stereotypes.

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