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caseymoz

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25. If you notice from my other posts
Fri Jan 11, 2013, 07:06 AM
Jan 2013

but it's possible to miss it, when I said "The Rape Culture" I'm acknowledging doesn't benefit all men, and in fact, doesn't benefit all rapists. It doesn't really function the way the feminists say it does. And it's not predominate. However, there's still no better name for it.

It's based on a cultural belief that women's sexual choices have to be restrained beyond simply being consensual. In other words, slut shaming. It was certainly the way the boys in Steubenville justified their actions, as crime was in progress. They thought they were right enough about it to be smug and boast.

Apparently, the people getting them off the hook don't think drugging, abducting, gang raping and sodomizing this girl over a period of hours is heinous enough to ruin these boys futures over, or to soil their football program about. The times they have spoken, these adults have shown total callousness to the girl. It's also true that all of them graduated that high school and were involved in the football program. They seem to have absorbed the belief that molesting a slut is no major crime, and at worst, a bit of mischief for a good cause. I hate to say, my perception is that this belief is widespread and ingrained enough that people aiding and abetting and obstructing justice over a rape can occur anywhere in the nation.

So, it might not exactly match feminists have in mind, but if that's not a rape culture, what the hell is?

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~ K ~ In_The_Wind Jan 2013 #1
Call me cynical caseymoz Jan 2013 #2
I think its a conspiratorial, protect-the-football team, small town culture that is enabling Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #4
If it weren't for some vigilantes, this would have been ignored. caseymoz Jan 2013 #5
I agree with you. There's definitely a fucked up culture in this town, it sure seems. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #7
Not trying to be THAT guy, but it isn't just football. Behind the Aegis Jan 2013 #8
My hunch is it's a combination of factors, tied to $ and veneration of this particular football team Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #9
I am actually familiar with Stubenville. Been there several times. Behind the Aegis Jan 2013 #10
Oy. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #11
I am an Army brat. I have been all over the country. Behind the Aegis Jan 2013 #12
It doesn't hurt that some of the parents are in positions of power ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jan 2013 #15
Yeah, I think the *Mother* of one of the members of the "rape crew" or their alleged accomplices is Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #19
Pity any rape victim who "gets in the way" of a football program. radicalliberal Jan 2013 #6
I don't consider it limited to small town culture so much. noamnety Jan 2013 #14
Yes, I'm old enough to remember Watergate, thanks. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #16
Criminal conspiracy does not require cultural encouragement. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2013 #13
I'd say the US under Bush was a torture culture. caseymoz Jan 2013 #22
Not all Americans torture, but all Americans profit from torture? nt Bonobo Jan 2013 #24
If you notice from my other posts caseymoz Jan 2013 #25
I cannot argue with you. I think you have it summed up correctly. nt Bonobo Jan 2013 #26
I appreciate what you're saying, and the thought you've put into it. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2013 #28
They would behave the same way if the team members had shoplifted. Bonobo Jan 2013 #17
I think you would find that difficult. caseymoz Jan 2013 #20
I will concede that there are sub-cultures that feel entitled to rape. Bonobo Jan 2013 #21
Your title agrees with just what I'm saying. caseymoz Jan 2013 #23
In a very well-to-do town near me.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jan 2013 #27
That is cultural. caseymoz Jan 2013 #30
The near-obsessive manner in which the "town" has circled the wagons round their football team is Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #3
Yes, I'm told the town is split over this. caseymoz Jan 2013 #18
Amazing how some elevate football people to god-like status Major Nikon Jan 2013 #29
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