Men's Group

I was actually wanting to start a thread on homophobia in here based on some things I was reading elsewhere (now, I can't remember the damn sites! ).

From what I have learned by experience and study, is that homophobia is a cultural stigma based in issues with sex, sexuality, and intimacy. Homophobia also has deep roots in religion, as well. Some forms of homophobia do appear to have ties to sexism against women. The problem with creating a clear explanation as to "where does it come from" is that it comes from different places, from different people, and under different circumstances.

Of course, some of it also rooted deeply into sexist stereotypes of masculinity and femininity. IMHO, this is what most people use as a basis to enforce their tightly held beliefs (issues) with sexuality. It also is used to as an opportunity for others to exploit sexism (against women/men), which just complicates the hell out of the situation. I also when people use our accomplishments to bash others.

I have experienced many forms of homophobia, from being called a "faggot," amongst other things, to, of course, not being allowed to marry my partner of 11.5 years. All forms of homophobia (personal (individual)/societal/institutional) affect me in almost a daily basis. However, I feel there is hope because I do changes, and that makes me very happy!

Ask me anything!