Men's Group

When I was a presenter, I discussed many "positive" stereotypes and how they really aren't all that positive, though they seem as such. As an example, "all gay men are attractive." A very positive stereotype; or so it would seem. Think of the damage it does to gay men who are average or unattractive. Are they suddenly "less gay" or not gay at all? It also affects others, such as attractive men who aren't gay.

The example about children I have discussed before. I don't go near children if I can help it at all. Partly because I don't care for them (though I love babies), but also because there is a part of me that always worries I will be accused of sexual abuse, even with female children. It is homophobia so deeply rooted in me, that is really does affect me and how I deal with some situations. Which, IMO, goes back to what I was saying about buying into stereotypes, including how gay/lesbians are supposed to sound, act, appear, and be.

Homophobia is very complex, like most bigotries.