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Showing Original Post only (View all)The Mythopoetic Movement [View all]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mythopoetic_men%27s_movementI find myself very much in agreement with the basic tenets listed here.
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The leaders of the mythopoetic men's movement believed that modernization had led to the feminization of men. Mythopoets believed that the rise of the urban industrial society "trapped men into straitjackets of rationality, thus blunting the powerful emotional communion and collective spiritual transcendence that they believe men in tribal societies typically enjoyed" (p. 20 Messner). Most importantly, the movement sought to restore the "deep masculine" to men who had lost it in their more modern lifestyles.
Other causes for the loss of the "deep masculine" include:
Men no longer being comrades who celebrated their masculinity together. Rather, they had become competitors within their workplaces.
Men spending more time in their houses with women than they did with men (in non-competitive terms outside of work). Excessive interaction with women generally kept men from realizing their internal masculinity.
Feminism bringing attention to the 'feminine voice.' Through this, the mythopoetic men felt that their voices had been muted (though Bly and others are careful in not blaming feminism for this).
The separation of men from their fathers kept them from being truly initiated into manhood, and was a source of emotional damage.
Men were suffering further emotional damage due to feminist accusations about sexism. Men should celebrate their differences from women, rather than feeling guilty about them.
Men being discouraged from expressing their emotions. Male inexpressivity is an epidemic and does not correspond to their "deep masculine" natures.
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Our society is notably lacking these sorts of initiation rituals, which can be integral to deeper
Warren DeMontague
May 2013
#5
I'm not sure this esteemed male bonding was all it was cracked up to be...
TreasonousBastard
May 2013
#6
I think we should have a scary initiation ritual for young men to join THIS group.
Warren DeMontague
May 2013
#8
That's an overly simplistic view of relationships- and people- I think.
Warren DeMontague
May 2013
#10
Apparently you believe that there is an idealized sort of fraternal relationship that is not.
Warren DeMontague
May 2013
#14
I think you'e looking at some things through a particular lens that I don't have much use for.
Warren DeMontague
May 2013
#16
maybe. it usually take me an hour of coaching to break the male ego.....
galileoreloaded
May 2013
#17