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HuskiesHowls

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2. I agree with this fully.
Sat May 18, 2013, 05:00 PM
May 2013

Myths are not fairy tales. They are stories coming from the collective unconscious of the psyche, couched in imagery that is sometimes arcane and easily misunderstood. They can, if the imagery is understood, lead to learning about who we are, and how we got there. Reading and understanding myths can also help us find out why we're as screwed up as we are at times.

Robert A. Johnson's book He, for example, uses the Parisfal (also known as The Fisher King) myth to explain the trials and tribulations of becoming a psychologically healthier man. In my own case, it helped me to understand a relationship that went badly many years ago. I now understand the dynamics of that relationship, and how it has affected me to this day. And no, I didn't read the book once and have a big light come on, I read it many times over many years and have slowly come to see how my life is reflected in that book.

I recall some incidents that occurred between my Dad and I earlier in my life. I had often wondered how they affected me, and although knowing the underlying cause of these, I did not know how they affected him. Of course, I never thought about such things while he was still alive, and we could have talked them over. After reading several other myths, I know now how stressful a time it was for him, and how screwed up it left me. I eventually understood what the dynamics of things were, and that has helped me go forward.

As a catalyst for men to understand themselves, it can lead to a better society. When men, and women, become more aware of why they do what they do, they start to understand how society as a whole is affected. When that becomes clearer, human rights become more important. And to me, that is the aim of the mythopoetic movement.

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The Mythopoetic Movement [View all] Bonobo May 2013 OP
Mostly agree. lumberjack_jeff May 2013 #1
I agree with this fully. HuskiesHowls May 2013 #2
Great post. Bonobo May 2013 #3
It seems that all of life forms groups, of one kind or another. HuskiesHowls May 2013 #4
Our society is notably lacking these sorts of initiation rituals, which can be integral to deeper Warren DeMontague May 2013 #5
I'm not sure this esteemed male bonding was all it was cracked up to be... TreasonousBastard May 2013 #6
One thing at least seems clear to me. Bonobo May 2013 #7
I think we should have a scary initiation ritual for young men to join THIS group. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #8
completely disagree galileoreloaded May 2013 #9
That's an overly simplistic view of relationships- and people- I think. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #10
maybe. but both the men and women i have coached galileoreloaded May 2013 #11
I also don't actually think "the culture" is "ill" Warren DeMontague May 2013 #12
ALL relationships are transactional. galileoreloaded May 2013 #13
Apparently you believe that there is an idealized sort of fraternal relationship that is not. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #14
yes i am. and i have had to teach my son galileoreloaded May 2013 #15
I think you'e looking at some things through a particular lens that I don't have much use for. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #16
maybe. it usually take me an hour of coaching to break the male ego..... galileoreloaded May 2013 #17
I'll stick with Korzybski, Wilson, Garcia and Hunter. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #18
Understood. It's a bitter pill. Nt galileoreloaded May 2013 #19
Mmmmm, I'm not sure it is. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #20
I agree with you completely HuskiesHowls May 2013 #21
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