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loli phabay

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8. a big part of this is people having to high a standard instead of aiming at their level

Reply to Doctor_J (Reply #4)

Mon Aug 26, 2013, 12:16 PM

Aug 2013

Last edited Mon Aug 26, 2013, 04:19 PM - Edit history (1)

I have a dating profile and i daily get hits from people who are well outside my parameters for height weight etc. This is just anecdotal but it shows me that the people are aiming at the wrong person.

I am very picky, if you dont meet the standards i set then i am not interested yet people seem to just skim the requirements and still waste their time contacting me. Even though i am explicit for some reason some still try it on. Its the same in reality.

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The Seven Worst Things About Being a Male [View all] Bonobo Aug 2013 OP

I can see the flip side to at least one of these Doctor_J Aug 2013 #1

Let me flip that back for a moment. Bonobo Aug 2013 #2

Totally agree. Disconcerting and psychologically unhealthy at both ends Doctor_J Aug 2013 #4

a big part of this is people having to high a standard instead of aiming at their level loli phabay Aug 2013 #8

being desired and persued is a good thing as long as it does not go creepy. loli phabay Aug 2013 #10

One more thing Doctor_J Aug 2013 #3

to old if your not getting any. loli phabay Aug 2013 #9

Fascinating OP! I almost don't know where to begin. There's so much to say! radicalliberal Aug 2013 #5

Thank you for your great response Bonobo Aug 2013 #6

This message was self-deleted by its author radicalliberal Aug 2013 #7

being referred to as a "dudebro" Warren DeMontague Aug 2013 #11

Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2013 #12

Honestly, coyotespaw Oct 2013 #13

Dying early isn't up there? nt Bonobo Oct 2013 #14

Shh. don't spoil the ending for him. n/t lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #17

the banging about of the external genitals is one of the best parts, if you ask me. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #15

Peeing while standing up is one of the best parts. n/t lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #16

Oh, also "Cowboy up, kiddo"...really? Bonobo Oct 2013 #18

Sorry it took a while to get back to you; coyotespaw Nov 2013 #19