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In reply to the discussion: How does one flunk 5th grade? [View all]
 

southernyankeebelle

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24. Well I sure can relate to you. My step-grandson might have to repeat the year also.
Fri Mar 8, 2013, 05:56 PM
Mar 2013

Now I always thought he enjoyed reading. My poor little granddaughter is going to have to repeat first grade because she has missed to many days. Both children have. The blame lays in their mother's lap. She was taking the kids to school in the morning. But she can't manage to get her lazy ass out of bed. We live right next door. We have told her to call us and we would take them. It is better to be 5 mins late then not go at all. They have been having martial problems. My son got a new job and he at to go to three different places they send him to. So now she is stuck having to take them. At parent teacher meetings my son went for his daughter and his step son and their mother. Come to find out the boy who is pretty smart is having problems with reading. Now the boy hasn't been with us except for the last 18 months living with them after my son and his wife remarried. He is reading at a second grade level. I was shocked. I asked with in the hell does the school system pass kids when they are having problems? I hate it here because the teacher never calls if she is having problems with a child. I don't know why. The high school here is even worse. You can't call the teacher. You have to go through the principal for that grade. When you make an appoint to see the principal in that grade they can't tell you anything and they tell you to talk to the teacher. It is such a run around. I would tell people try to get invovled at your child's school. That is the only way you know how your child is doing. Now my grandkids are being picked up at 6:30 in the morning and get home at 3:40in the afternoon. I feel sorry for kids today in school. I already told my daughter-in-law if she is smart when it comes time for high school she will home school her daughter. Her own sister had problems in middle school with fighting and bullying (I have a feeling though she was part of the problem) and her mother homeschooled her starting the 8th grade. Our elementary school goes here to 8th grade. Good luck.

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How does one flunk 5th grade? [View all] FirstLight Mar 2013 OP
I guess one might, but in this case, TEACHER and SCHOOL flunk. elleng Mar 2013 #1
Put it in writing mainstreetonce Mar 2013 #6
good idea FirstLight Mar 2013 #8
A paper trail is always a good thing. thucythucy Mar 2013 #10
hi d_r Mar 2013 #2
seriously! FirstLight Mar 2013 #4
Hang in there... onpatrol98 Mar 2013 #12
thanks FirstLight Mar 2013 #13
Actually savebigbird Mar 2013 #29
Good advice. proud2BlibKansan Mar 2013 #31
there is a new school going online on May1st....it may be a better option for your daughter. chillfactor Mar 2013 #3
yes, please PM me FirstLight Mar 2013 #7
done...good luck! chillfactor Mar 2013 #17
It is so hard when the teacher blames the child instead of hedgehog Mar 2013 #5
take a witness with you for all meetings, a friend is ok, doesn't need to be a legal advocate.... msongs Mar 2013 #9
I think you are seeing the result of Prop. 13 reteachinwi Mar 2013 #11
I wholeheartedly agree... FirstLight Mar 2013 #14
You have the right to ask the district to evaluate her for a learning disability. MannyGoldstein Mar 2013 #15
holy wow...i didn't even know that link existed! FirstLight Mar 2013 #16
My wife and I help local parents with this stuff MannyGoldstein Mar 2013 #18
What a nice thing for you and your wife to do! Rider3 Mar 2013 #20
Tremendously satisfying work MannyGoldstein Mar 2013 #26
I suspect you and your wife MoclipsHumptulips Mar 2013 #37
This sucks Rider3 Mar 2013 #19
thanks FirstLight Mar 2013 #21
The Principal just called FirstLight Mar 2013 #22
also...you wanna hear "Irony"...? FirstLight Mar 2013 #23
.... OneGrassRoot Mar 2013 #25
Well I sure can relate to you. My step-grandson might have to repeat the year also. southernyankeebelle Mar 2013 #24
yikes FirstLight Mar 2013 #27
My son had ADHD the school never told me. I worked at a doctor's office and realized southernyankeebelle Mar 2013 #28
ADHD is a medical diagnosis. Schools don't diagnose it. proud2BlibKansan Mar 2013 #32
I did but had their own evaluation team. That is the way they did it. I can only tell you what southernyankeebelle Mar 2013 #33
By not coming to school proud2BlibKansan Mar 2013 #30
As a former teacher, I can confirm this TexasBushwhacker Mar 2013 #36
Hang in there, Mom. SEMOVoter Mar 2013 #34
... FirstLight Mar 2013 #35
Update - the plot thickens FirstLight Apr 2013 #38
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