LGBT

We’re loud and proud, and we like to get a little “out of the norm”, I guess. It’s like Santa Cruz, where anything goes. I remember the day I first got to Soquel I picked-up the Gazette and was reading while eating my tacos and drinking a Pacifico with a lime. There was an entry about a “tutu tête-à-tête” at The Lane (if you’ve ever spent any time in Canna Screws, you know The Lane on West Cliff). I was surprised with joy to find dozens of guys riding unicycles and wearing pink tutu’s!

Admittedly, at first it was a bit strange, but within minutes I had introduced myself and had conversations and they were guys just like me. I’m not sure I’d ever wear a tutu or learn to ride a unicycle, but they were software engineers, professors, cops and lawyers just out having a great time celebrating Pride - and that’s something I can get behind. Didn’t matter which way they batted, they were people having a great time.

I’ve never been homophobic but, being straight, it’s just not my experience. Giving straight people the opportunity to not be phobic might be the key. Not saying it’s a duty or responsibility, but it might be a keen path of least resistance.

As a straight dude I get out and cheer for anyone who has the freedom to be who they are, and in my town, everyone can do that - and it’s wonderful!