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libodem

(19,288 posts)
6. Sounds sensible to me
Wed Sep 24, 2014, 01:28 PM
Sep 2014

Our message has been to men: "don't rape".
Our message to women has been "you are never responsible" and it seems to be taken to mean that you can get drunk and pass out and everyone one else must respect your boundaries and judgement. Anything less is slut shaming.And as we know there are no sluts in Feminism.
These dumb ass guys are trying to take responsibility for another person's behavior because Alcoholism calls for codependency. The women can't be held responsible.

Its all the responsibility of the Frat. The women are the victims. It is self preservation. They need to make new rules about how to treat drunk girls. I see it as trying to create a new norm against rape through male responsibility.
I see it as trying to keep campuses safe and fun. Moderation is mature.

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