I'll disclose that I've been alienated from my family since I left home as soon as I was of legal age..I would have gone at 15 but was threatened with Juvenal Hall. Anyway, I had a brain so I managed. The point is that off and on I've tried to repair the relationships but it doesn't work...so my youngest sister married and moved to Australia and she and her daughter were in California the same time as my son and I so after much work they agreed to let us drive them to their next stop. I thought it would be nice for the kids to meet. Well it all went sideways when I didn't know who my sister was! I couldn't get my head around it and no one had told me that she had not just gotten a boob job, I knew about that, but she had had total facial surgery and was unrecognizable. She got really mad at me and said I was rude. I felt bad but I was so shocked I was confused by it...even her daughter had had total reconstruction and didn't look like the pictures I'd seen of her.
What a mess...
They're very pretty, I just didn't expect it...my bad, again.
Our values are very different.
We aren't valued for what we really are inside, just outside...I always hated that.
The other day I was coming back from the barn in my coveralls and jacket and had sunglasses on and someone honked at me. It brought it all back, that's when I started to think about this and how comfortable and grateful I am to be at an age when I don't have to deal with so much shit, all the time...LOL
Hey Warpy I nursed my son and my boobs got in the way! My husband loved it, I hated it...you couldn't give me a boob job! LOL I like my natural self!
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