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BlueMTexpat

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10. I was actually surprised when
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 04:28 AM
Dec 2015

I returned to the US in 1970 after living and working in Morocco for six years. I had experiences similar to these womens' in my own country even then. While I was fortunate never to have had the need or desire for an abortion, in those pre-Roe v Wade days, PP was under threat merely for dispensing birth control.

In many ways, Morocco's women - especially professional women (and there were indeed many women professionals there - even at the time) - had more advantages than women in the US then. For example, if I, a female secondary school teacher, got pregnant in the US, I would have to resign my post after the 5th month of pregnancy, with NO guarantee whatsoever that I would be rehired after the baby was born. Not only could a Moroccan counterpart keep her position, she was given paid leave for up to three months, all her maternity health care costs were covered, her husband had paternity leave benefits, and her job would be held open for her. In fact, she could even continue to have time off to breastfeed her child after she returned to work.

In Morocco even then, birth control methods were not only legal, but covered by health insurance. If a woman desired a pregnancy termination, she could obtain one legally and safely - although the overwhelming majority did not elect that option. The majority of those who did so opted for termination where their own health was concerned or when the fetus was already at risk in some way.

It wasn't until about 1973 that women in the US public school where I taught could wear pantsuits to school. Dresses or skirts were required unless there was a waiver for some special occasion.

We've come a long way since, but we still lag behind other countries in the industrialized world - and even some countries in the developing world - insofar as women's rights are concerned. Unfortunately, too many today who never experienced those days - or have managed selectively to forget them - do not understand how hard so many had to work to get us even where we are.

Many of those who were tireless campaigners for women's rights were not able to experience the fruits of their labor. But I, for one, will never forget them. Ever.

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Well, those are three of the most intolerant bastions in our nation. MADem Dec 2015 #1
Oregon???? JDPriestly Dec 2015 #5
If you're black--hell yes Oregon. It was founded as a RACIST Utopia. MADem Dec 2015 #8
Have you been there? JDPriestly Dec 2015 #9
Yes--I have been to Astoria quite briefly and I got the hell out of there as quick as I could. MADem Dec 2015 #11
Astoria isn't the same as Portland, FWIW. It's much more of a small town place. n/t pnwmom Dec 2015 #13
I wasn't feeling all that great in the airport! MADem Dec 2015 #14
I know what you mean. pnwmom Dec 2015 #18
I will defend Portland. I recently was there and we stayed in a popular downtown hotel randys1 Dec 2015 #26
Except the purpose of this tour was to study the treatment of WOMEN. pnwmom Dec 2015 #12
Well, there are women who are people of color, so I think that might apply. MADem Dec 2015 #15
I don't think Oregon is a place that has a special problem with gender equality. pnwmom Dec 2015 #16
We will have to wait for their report, I guess, to learn what they found. MADem Dec 2015 #17
It will be interesting! pnwmom Dec 2015 #19
If they went to SF they would have faced pretty much the same stuff Lordquinton Dec 2015 #20
Well, I think they are looking for access to services for women, and focusing on minority women MADem Dec 2015 #21
That's pretty universal Lordquinton Dec 2015 #22
I understand exactly what you mean regarding Oregon. When I was in a "on the road" band,... BlueJazz Dec 2015 #23
It's just a feeling of comfort and ease that was missing. I felt like I didn't belong there. MADem Dec 2015 #24
I'm horrified, too. Every day. We're so Dark Ages here. southerncrone Dec 2015 #2
I agree that is true for the US, but less so in Portland, Oregon than in many other areas of the US. JDPriestly Dec 2015 #6
... Spitfire of ATJ Dec 2015 #3
sorta sad how women are willing to put up with this, being more than half the population nt msongs Dec 2015 #4
K&R. JDPriestly Dec 2015 #7
Me, too. They are all economic issues, as well. southerncrone Dec 2015 #29
I was actually surprised when BlueMTexpat Dec 2015 #10
Thank you, because I Lifelong Protester Dec 2015 #25
We must not be surprised. Also, we are WAY behind the times as to never having randys1 Dec 2015 #27
Indeed. nt SunSeeker Dec 2015 #28
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