Feminists

-- and I think should ask -- did black separatists hate non-black people?

Do Quebec separatists hate The Rest of Canada (as we call it)?

Some might have, and might. Some members of oppressed groups do hate the oppressor group, and sometimes even the larger group that both belong to (not all members of oppressor groups being oppressors themselves, of course).

Are separatist movements usually built on hate, or rather on an analysis that leads to the conclusion that the development and progress of the oppressed group is possible only separately?

Is it possible to be a separatist and harbour no ill feelings at all toward the rest of the group one wants to cease being part of? Absolutely.

So I'm still not seeing anything to support the allegation that feminists, i.e. in general, or any subgroup of feminists, as a group, hate or have ever hated men.

As for what any individual feminist thinks or does, that is no one else's responsibility.