Feminists

which is why I had two paragraphs. The first paragraph deals with others worrying about Neoma rallying something. The second was about the timing.

I think what Neoma initially did should have been done when this hateful rant took place. I actually applaud her for doing what she did. You're going to have a hard time getting me to say I think everything she has done is wrong because I won't--she may have done them for the wrong reasons, we'll never know that. Part of that is her fault for not speaking up immediately but how would any of us react if we were accused of some of the things she was? I may have gone into hiding a bit too. As far as the sharing PM's thing, I'm not as bothered by that as some because I don't say anything I wouldn't say otherwise. If I take her OP last night as truthful, I get the impression she didn't trust any of the co-hosts enough to go to them. If that is indeed the case, that's a HUGE problem in and of itself. Maybe she did go outside the group for advice and maybe that was the best course of action. Y'all are assuming some grand conspiracy that we have no proof of.

I try to see things from all perspectives and as you know, I wanted to know WHY all this was happening when everyone else wanted her gone. I have a difficult time trying to see anything as only black and white. There are definite shades of grey to everything and I believe there is a reason for everything everyone does and I want to know those reasons. I'm still thinking about everything she said in her OP last night and I'm sure after I've had more time to think I'll have a side I'll align with but that hasn't happened yet. That said, I think I made some of my thoughts on this whole issue clear in my OP. If she has some sort of proof that this is admin sanctioned, then I want to see it. If she produces that, then we should all step back and consider why the admins would have given her the okay to do such a thing.

I'll be damned if I don't have visions of pitchforks and flames in my head from all this rush to judgement and I certainly do not to be one of those people carrying a pitchfork. I like my karma as clean as possible.