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Marrah_G

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48. Bingo

Reply to obamanut2012 (Reply #44)

Thu Jun 28, 2012, 09:15 PM

Jun 2012

In fact I would say that there is alot less abuse within the BDSM world then outside of it. There are alot of rules and the communities tend to police themselves. Even one abusive incident generally gets around pretty quickly and they find themselves ostrasized and potential submissives are warned off.

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Hi. I've never posted in this group, but... [View all] one_voice Jun 2012 OP

I haven't read it but because of all the buzz I hope that others here will discuss it. Gormy Cuss Jun 2012 #1

Same here, Gormy obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #4

I'd join you if I didn't have 4 books checked out from the library. Neoma Jun 2012 #2

Same here, many books already in line tammywammy Jun 2012 #6

Nice to see you too! one_voice Jun 2012 #8

I'd rather read about Nixon. Neoma Jun 2012 #13

I don't really want to read it. FloridaJudy Jun 2012 #3

Ha! That is dead on! obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #5

Hilarious! n/t tammywammy Jun 2012 #7

Perfect! one_voice Jun 2012 #9

"Butt plug, what the hell is a butt plug?" Neoma Jun 2012 #12

That was hilarious and like you, I will take their advice and skip this one. yardwork Jun 2012 #21

Sounds like "The Story of O" Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2012 #51

I started it a while ago and just picked it up again maddezmom Jun 2012 #10

It started out as "Twilight" fan fiction. Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #11

I thought you meant Twlight Zone at first. Neoma Jun 2012 #14

ITS A COOKBOOK!!!!! Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #15

How to Serve BDSM obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #17

50 Shades author at least admits her writing sucks obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #16

thank you for posting this OKNancy Jun 2012 #18

I don't read BDSM books obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #19

I had an acquaintance who was reading it FloridaJudy Jun 2012 #20

It's amazing how many people have misconceptions about feminism. yardwork Jun 2012 #22

The ending ruins the Story of O, but have you ever watched "Secretary"? obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #23

I've heard of that movie. I like Maggie, too. Also like her brother. yardwork Jun 2012 #24

In the real world of BDSM there are LOTS of male submissives Marrah_G Jun 2012 #47

That's what I figure obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #53

I'm with you on The Story of O FloridaJudy Jun 2012 #25

...and the piercing that clanked. Yikes. yardwork Jun 2012 #26

C-clanked? Starry Messenger Jun 2012 #27

I wish I hadn't read it. Seriously. yardwork Jun 2012 #31

It always seemed like the writer got close to the end LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #39

I read that she wrote it in an effort to keep her boyfriend's attention. yardwork Jun 2012 #43

Real BDSM relationships also aren't abusive obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #44

I've heard that. This was strictly amateur night. yardwork Jun 2012 #45

Bingo Marrah_G Jun 2012 #48

I'm halfway through the second one KaryninMiami Jun 2012 #28

Agree.. one_voice Jun 2012 #29

Sometimes you need trashy obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #32

I read the first one RainDog Jun 2012 #30

Promise me one thing obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #33

This message was self-deleted by its author RainDog Jun 2012 #35

I agree with that quote obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #41

"Down there" drives me crazy too Gormy Cuss Jun 2012 #34

no joke RainDog Jun 2012 #36

Start writing! n/t Gormy Cuss Jun 2012 #37

This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Jun 2012 #40

That is THE reason women married until quite recently obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #42

Society, not women RainDog Jun 2012 #46

This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Jun 2012 #52

A lot of women died in childbirth RainDog Jun 2012 #56

I forced myself to read the trilogy over the last LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #38

I never really pay attention to best sellers anymore. Neoma Jun 2012 #49

there's a couple of authors that I follow LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #50

I like that with George RR Martin and Bill Bryson obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #54

I started following Sue Grafton LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #57

I've been told I'd like Terry Prachett obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #58

Belly laughs and lots of 'em LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #59

The closest I've come to following one author, has been Mary Roach. Neoma Jun 2012 #55