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no_hypocrisy

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30. I've had two different situations in school.

Reply to Starry Messenger (Original post)

Sat Dec 1, 2012, 04:11 PM

Dec 2012

In undergrad, I went to a college for women only. Small classes. I learned to find my voice and speak up freely.

When I went to law school, I thought I could continue what I had been doing in undergrad. I twice answered an arcane and esoteric question correctly and I heard a male peanut gallery in back of me commenting, "Ooooooooooohhhhhhhhh!" and not in a friendly, teasing way. It was derisive and meant to demean. Not that it stopped me, but my point is the OP is correct in some situations.

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Women Speak Drastically Less When They’re Surrounded by Dudes. And That’s Bad. [View all] Starry Messenger Sep 2012 OP

Not this one! bunnies Sep 2012 #1

All the more reasons tama Sep 2012 #2

but I turtle up due to likely consequences zazen Sep 2012 #3

This, especially-- Starry Messenger Sep 2012 #5

Post removed Post removed Sep 2012 #9

You are in the wrong place making nasty generalized statements about feminists. nt stevenleser Sep 2012 #12

(Not) TrueBlue has had a pizza delivered. Zorra Sep 2012 #19

LOL! Isn't this forum a place of making generalized statements about men? yeswehavenobananas Dec 2012 #25

You seem to have a mistaken impression of what DU is about. DU is not about engaging right wingers stevenleser Dec 2012 #26

And guess what, Sparky? oh reiki ur so fine Dec 2012 #31

You are attacking a posit that I never made, Library girl. DU mail me from your next incarnation... stevenleser Dec 2012 #32

Female group assertiveness, ethnicity and female/male rations kurt_cagle Sep 2012 #4

I have witnessed this TexasProgresive Sep 2012 #6

Thanks TexasProgresive. Starry Messenger Sep 2012 #7

Well I didn't until I was in listening mode. TexasProgresive Sep 2012 #8

Equality TrueBlue2012 Sep 2012 #10

As the saying goes, ya ain't gotta go home, but you can't stay here. nt stevenleser Sep 2012 #13

Unfortunately, the jury came up 3-3 but this troll has been MIRTED. nt stevenleser Sep 2012 #14

Thanks to MIRt. yardwork Sep 2012 #15

Emilyg, is that you? yardwork Sep 2012 #18

This is why whenever I am in a meeting and there are women not speaking up or being talked over stevenleser Sep 2012 #11

That's good! Often women have something important to contribute. yardwork Sep 2012 #16

I tend to talk less when there are all men in the room kdmorris Sep 2012 #17

I worked in a medium-sized company where most of the professionals and managers were women. Gormy Cuss Sep 2012 #20

"They're groomed for assertiveness since birth" is true of a lot of men, but not all... YoungDemCA Nov 2012 #21

As a former Union Rep Jasana Nov 2012 #22

That's been my experience too. Starry Messenger Nov 2012 #23

i have taken note sigmasix Nov 2012 #24

I am happy to say that is not the case at my university. Deep13 Dec 2012 #27

I'm speechless around women Eyes of the World Dec 2012 #28

Yes, their lungs are bigger, that one tends to get me; elleng Dec 2012 #29

I've had two different situations in school. no_hypocrisy Dec 2012 #30