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disabled husband. I'm fortunate to be a computer analyst who can work from home. My husband has severe COPD on oxygen 24/7, seizures, loss of mobility from a broken hip in 2023, and episodes of dementia that happen sporadically. I worry the dementia will become more frequent and I won't be able to manage. His neurologist claims the seizures have caused brain damage that is responsible for dementia and memory loss. After he broke his hip last year he went to a rehab facility within a nursing home. He absolutely hated it and was actually abusive to the staff. I was shocked. He was never like that at home. They tried their best, but he would not cooperate. When I brought him home he was his usual, kind self.

I'm relieved to hear your husband sounds like a happier patient. Do what keeps both of you safe. People with dementia can accidentally injure themselves and their caregivers. Praying for both of you. I know how hard it is to be separated from your partner. Take care, sending you hugs