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In reply to the discussion: I did a thing today! [View all]

jmbar2

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1. This is a really good project!
Mon Oct 21, 2024, 05:31 AM
Oct 2024

The older memories last longer than the more recent ones, so the photos can help retain contact with loved ones whose memories are fading.

It is also helpful when they are in nursing care for the staff and caretakers to know about the person's life, and to be able to pull out the memory book and talk about old times with them. Be sure to include pet photos.

One other thing I'd suggest: Make a mixtape of their favorite songs from the prime of their lives. When my dad was thought to be long gone, I played him a recording of Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong from one of his favorite albums. He immediately beamed and said "It's Ella and Louie". We had a few moments of good conversation around that.

Cheers to you for the comfort you are providing!

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I did a thing today! [View all] Aussie105 Oct 2024 OP
This is a really good project! jmbar2 Oct 2024 #1
Thank you! Aussie105 Oct 2024 #2
Another idea NJCher Oct 2024 #3
Please reconsider... jmbar2 Oct 2024 #6
You would be amazed NJCher Oct 2024 #10
It was a diffuser - that was the problem jmbar2 Oct 2024 #12
Sounds terrible NJCher Oct 2024 #14
I share your noise sensitivities as well jmbar2 Oct 2024 #16
I can hear my NJCher Oct 2024 #17
That would be very unnerving! jmbar2 Oct 2024 #19
music, too. mopinko Oct 2024 #11
You did a good thing today!! KarenS Oct 2024 #4
The compassion snowybirdie Oct 2024 #5
Dementia is taboo-ish near me Tetrachloride Oct 2024 #7
Oh dear, very sad and difficult for you. Joinfortmill Oct 2024 #8
It's amazing how much Dementia patients remember from the past. HeartsCanHope Oct 2024 #9
Sorry I know what is like Blue Full Moon Oct 2024 #13
Very kind of you to think of your stepson in such a tangible way. MLAA Oct 2024 #15
That is so very kind and thoughtful of you. Do not discount the positive niyad Oct 2024 #18
Thanks for all the positivity in the feedback. Aussie105 Oct 2024 #20
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