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halfulglas

(1,654 posts)
11. The pressure to join can be relentless.
Tue May 30, 2023, 08:58 AM
May 2023

At my age I rarely drink because even a small amount can affect my reflexes now. But the pressure to drink isn't mean, just people seem to think there's something wrong with you if you don't drink. My good friend when she was with her ex had to attend a lot of parties and get-togethers with him for his job and would nurse a ginger ale or water. One night when guys would come up to her and pressure her and say come on, have a drink, she decided to just tell them she was an alcoholic (she wasn't really, she just thought this would stop the pressure to drink). She was shocked when these people would say, well, one drink won't hurt you.

It can be really annoying watching people who feel they have to have a drink with their meals, and then another and they get louder and the more they drink the louder they get.

I like the way you described it as "survived" the vacation.

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Congratulations, I understand what you went through, and what an accomplishment it is Walleye May 2023 #1
Way to stay strong! Hope22 May 2023 #2
I hear you. They all likely suffered a headache in the morning, while you were singing a tune... Joinfortmill May 2023 #3
welcome back Tetrachloride May 2023 #4
... sprinkleeninow May 2023 #5
That is amazing. Your kids, wife and so forth, didn't support you? 3Hotdogs May 2023 #6
My wife and kids do support me. bif May 2023 #16
But we go though it and we come out as strong and stronger. Good on you! marble falls May 2023 #7
How did you like York? Applan May 2023 #8
It's one of my favorite cities in England. bif May 2023 #15
Congratulations h2ebits May 2023 #9
Fortitude! LatteLady May 2023 #10
The pressure to join can be relentless. halfulglas May 2023 #11
A med I take requires alcohol avoidance. People spooky3 May 2023 #13
Early research suggests confirmation of intuitive logic...legal cannabis means less consumption. Alexander Of Assyria May 2023 #17
people also assume you're 'missing out on the fun' stopdiggin May 2023 #18
You don't hear this point of view often. BradBo May 2023 #12
Well done! ChazInAz May 2023 #14
Congrats! Wife retired and you graduated! Was a tough oral examination you passed w flying colours.n Bernardo de La Paz May 2023 #19
You have a lot to be proud of! Marthe48 May 2023 #20
Brits love drinking heavily IronLionZion May 2023 #21
Congratulations, you did amazingly well wendyb-NC May 2023 #22
WELL DONE! Skittles May 2023 #23
Congratulations ..very late, but my hat is off to you Stuart G Jun 2023 #24
Thank You for Posting & Sharing With Us...K and R You Prevailed!!!!and you are totally correct..... Stuart G Jun 2023 #25
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