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Rorey

(8,513 posts)
44. Good for you!!!
Tue Sep 10, 2024, 10:39 AM
Sep 2024

My daughter is an alcoholic. She hasn't had a drink in at least 4 years. I think that maybe the reason that she didn't note the date of her first day of the rest of her life being sober was because she had tried and slipped quite a few times before it became "real".

My oldest son is also an alcoholic, and he has never even attempted to quit as far as I know. I stopped believing I could be an influence quite a few years ago. I love him, but it's his choice. I had to accept that. I also accept that I probably will outlive him because of his choice.

I love your words of wisdom. It's great advice for everyone. No matter how much any of us dwell on the past, we can't rewrite it. Experiences, good or bad, are lessons.

Congratulations! I'm at 3 1/2 years and counting... Dennis Donovan Sep 2024 #1
Congrats bif. NoMoreRepugs Sep 2024 #2
Congratulations! AloeVera Sep 2024 #3
Good for you. bullimiami Sep 2024 #4
Keep looking forward. Congratuations, it ain't so easy as some might think. marble falls Sep 2024 #5
Congratulations. Keep on, keepin' on. sinkingfeeling Sep 2024 #6
Congrats, Bif! SheltieLover Sep 2024 #7
34th year of recovery from narcotics. multigraincracker Sep 2024 #8
Congrats to you! We're riding the same anniversary boat. KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2024 #14
Congrats Mark! FalloutShelter Sep 2024 #9
So happy for you! Clouds Passing Sep 2024 #10
Happy anniversary, Bif. You've been sober 2190 days, one day at a time. KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2024 #11
You're a hero.... bleedingulcers Sep 2024 #12
Congratulations! joshdawg Sep 2024 #13
Not all heroes wear capes Dear_Prudence Sep 2024 #15
Congrats. 32 and counting here n/t if..fish..had..wings Sep 2024 #16
Congratulations bif. I'm coming up on 2 years myself. yonder Sep 2024 #17
Buy a big ice cream cone. You deserve it. twodogsbarking Sep 2024 #18
That's my reward! bif Sep 2024 #20
Congratulations!!! Good on you. LoisB Sep 2024 #19
congrats . AllaN01Bear Sep 2024 #21
A real accomplishment. It takes courage. Ramsey Barner Sep 2024 #22
This is a big deal, Bif. Major congratulations! rurallib Sep 2024 #23
I gave up drinking bif Sep 2024 #41
Whatever it takes! Way to go! rurallib Sep 2024 #43
I understand your mixed feelings Rorey Sep 2024 #46
For the longest time, I had a lousy attitude about it. bif Sep 2024 #49
You are where you are Rorey Sep 2024 #56
Congratulations bif! RainCaster Sep 2024 #24
What's 90 in 90? bif Sep 2024 #39
90 meetings in 90 days- always suggested for the newly sober RainCaster Sep 2024 #50
That sounds like an AA thing. bif Sep 2024 #52
It is RainCaster Sep 2024 #53
Whatever works, is my feeling! bif Sep 2024 #54
Congratulations! onecaliberal Sep 2024 #25
Congratulations. Keep going! NNadir Sep 2024 #26
Congratulations 👏 so happy for you 👍 TommieMommy Sep 2024 #27
Congratulations! AltairIV Sep 2024 #28
Happy 6th! mahina Sep 2024 #29
Nicely done bif! Permanut Sep 2024 #30
Good show! ChazInAz Sep 2024 #31
Very happy for you! catrose Sep 2024 #32
Congratulations!! DemonGoddess Sep 2024 #33
Congratulations LetMyPeopleVote Sep 2024 #34
39 for me. last month. I remembered a couple of days later. rzemanfl Sep 2024 #35
Congratulations! Danmel Sep 2024 #36
Congrats! I almost forgot today is mine. 21. johnnyplankton Sep 2024 #37
Congratulations orangecrush Sep 2024 #38
Congrats! Joinfortmill Sep 2024 #40
I'm 71 years old and coming up on four months. Mr.Bill Sep 2024 #42
Good for you, Mr. Bill! Rorey Sep 2024 #45
Good for you!!! Rorey Sep 2024 #44
Keep coming back WmChris Sep 2024 #47
Congratulations bif! sdfernando Sep 2024 #48
Congratulations! One day at a time.....👍🏻 louslobbs Sep 2024 #51
Happy 6th sobriety anniversary! 10 Turtle Day Sep 2024 #55
Thanks for the kind words, everyone! bif Sep 2024 #57
Sorry I missed this, congratulations! Rhiannon12866 Sep 30 #58
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