Update on my mom. [View all]

My sister just called and said they determined finally she is stage 4. They say maybe 18 months if she does chemo but she is losing so much weight and I'm worried she wouldn't even outlast the therapy. My sister is going to try and get her to use medical mj, at least in terms of how we would have her use it. My sister think it can stimulate her appetite and help her with pain. We are going down there next weekend. I know her just being with us and her new granddaughter could add minutes and more so every second counts. What are the steps to dealing with this? I'm not in denial, and maybe somewhere deep down I was preparing for this because I grew up without her. Only living with her when school was out for summer so I think I always had this, "will this be the last time I see my mom" mechanism since I was a kid. I just don't know.