Cancer Support

riverbendviewgal

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45. So sorry and send you hugs

Mon Apr 24, 2023, 12:53 PM

Apr 2023

Last month I had a fall and have 3 compressed fractures on my spine. It was such severe pain .still is. . I know how much pain you are feeling. I send you hugs and encouragement in your fight for life. it's good you have help from friends.

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I've been diagnosed with stage four terminal cancer [View all] SonofDonald Apr 2023 OP

Sending you all the best vibes! MLAA Apr 2023 #1

OMG I'm so sorry ... that is terrible, terrible news ... Hugh_Lebowski Apr 2023 #2

Holding you in light and love. Your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as niyad Apr 2023 #3

Best of luck to you, my DUer friend. OAITW r.2.0 Apr 2023 #4

Sending you good vibes and virtual hugs. brer cat Apr 2023 #5

You will be in my prayers LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2023 #6

What can be said in the face of such news? I wish you the best. Scrivener7 Apr 2023 #7

I'm so sorry. Solly Mack Apr 2023 #8

... alwaysinasnit Apr 2023 #9

Your fight is heroic bucolic_frolic Apr 2023 #10

My tolerance for pain is high SonofDonald Apr 2023 #28

Devastating to hear about your relentless moonscape Apr 2023 #11

I am so sorry you're dealing with this! Sending vibes and ms liberty Apr 2023 #12

I'm Faux pas Apr 2023 #13

They say I'm terminal but.... SonofDonald Apr 2023 #14

Your attitude in fighting these challenges inspired me grantcart Apr 2023 #30

A strong positive attitude has healing abilities KS Toronado Apr 2023 #35

I'm both saddened and inspired by you. You are very brave. Pepsidog Apr 2023 #36

Do whatever you can, and do it for yourself. marble falls Apr 2023 #91

Good care and a great attitude is so helpful. Wishing you continued strength and spirit all the way JudyM Apr 2023 #97

When I get out I will try the Rick Simpson oil SonofDonald Apr 2023 #114

If cannabis is legal in your state you should be able to get it at a dispensary. JudyM Apr 2023 #115

It's legal here in Washington state SonofDonald Apr 2023 #116

Aw, so special and sweet! JudyM Apr 2023 #117

Hey great attitude! We're on Vashon Goddessartist Apr 2023 #108

My son also has terminal cancer Lifeafter70 Apr 2023 #113

Your attitude is truly inspiring to me!! Sparkly Jul 2023 #125

My heart babylonsister Apr 2023 #15

Sending peaceful vibes your way Lifeafter70 Apr 2023 #16

This is terrible. May all the forces of The Universe surround you and send healing and peace. LoisB Apr 2023 #17

... markie Apr 2023 #18

Sending you every good vibe Alliepoo Apr 2023 #19

I'm so terribly sorry. Keep the faith. sinkingfeeling Apr 2023 #20

I'm sorry. LisaM Apr 2023 #21

Sending you my very best DU vibes Wicked Blue Apr 2023 #22

I am so very sorry. CousinIT Apr 2023 #23

I've already told all family members SonofDonald Apr 2023 #60

It's way too much grief for one family. I'm so sorry. CousinIT Apr 2023 #65

Long may you run, SoD. May you go home, feel less pain, feel all the love your heart can hold. ancianita Apr 2023 #24

Sending you love, hugs and prayers. gademocrat7 Apr 2023 #25

this breaks my heart KT2000 Apr 2023 #26

May you and yours find comfort and peace Botany Apr 2023 #27

So sorry to hear about your struggles, SonofDonald! pazzyanne Apr 2023 #29

frankly cancer should be drug out in to the middle of the dam street and filled full of bullets dawn5651 Apr 2023 #31

Holding you in my heart for strength and peace. You are not alone, you are dear to DU. n/t TygrBright Apr 2023 #32

.... progressoid Apr 2023 #33

I'm so, so sorry. StarryNite Apr 2023 #34

Bummer. Strength and honor. WheelWalker Apr 2023 #37

I'd encourage you to keep two lines of thinking open, if you can. Ms. Toad Apr 2023 #38

Wishing you peace ...may you beat all the odds with treatment PortTack Apr 2023 #39

Vibes sent to you and your lived ones. applegrove Apr 2023 #40

So very sorry... rogerballard Apr 2023 #41

I am praying that every day you have is FULL of blessings and zero pain! Keep it up! Life's worth it keopeli Apr 2023 #42

So sorry to hear this news.. Desert grandma Apr 2023 #43

Sent up a prayer for healing vibes for you. iluvtennis Apr 2023 #44

So sorry and send you hugs riverbendviewgal Apr 2023 #45

I am so sorry you are suffering. pandr32 Apr 2023 #46

So very sorry. Cancer sucks so bad. SleeplessinSoCal Apr 2023 #47

I'm so sorry for all you're going through. Jay25 Apr 2023 #48

Do whatever they offer that gives you comfort and decreases pain. TNNurse Apr 2023 #49

Yes it is, Washington state is legal SonofDonald Apr 2023 #66

It does sound like a very tough diagnosis. TNNurse Apr 2023 #72

Sometimes it's hard to find the right words. democrank Apr 2023 #50

Continue to live, laugh, love and never quit housecat Apr 2023 #51

So sorry to hear this. You ave already been through a ton. Hope you get out in the 10 days. Evolve Dammit Apr 2023 #52

Fuck cancer Lanius Apr 2023 #53

May peace attend your days, always Hekate Apr 2023 #54

Amazing Fortitude and Endurance FrankTC Apr 2023 #55

I'm so sorry barbtries Apr 2023 #56

Oh no, I feel awful for your pain and having to deal with this. It sounds like are facing everything TeamProg Apr 2023 #57

I'm sorry cate94 Apr 2023 #58

Very sorry to hear this. Abigail_Adams Apr 2023 #59

Nobody should have to endure this kind of pain. sellitman Apr 2023 #61

I'm grateful for your years of service in your life. KY_EnviroGuy Apr 2023 #62

Enjoy every day Wild blueberry Apr 2023 #63

Thank you for sharing. You're in my prayers and good vibrations duhneece Apr 2023 #64

Shit! I don't know your beliefs, but mine... and unless hundreds of NDE'ers are hoaxters... say Karadeniz Apr 2023 #67

I pray for your comfort. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Maraya1969 Apr 2023 #68

Oh no. I'm sorry you are so uncomfortable AllyCat Apr 2023 #69

I'm so sorry. area51 Apr 2023 #70

I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles Apr 2023 #71

I am so sorry you are in such pain. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through judesedit Apr 2023 #73

If you need someone to talk to or to laugh with send me a message. BlueLucy Apr 2023 #74

Love and warm healing vibes to you! colorado_ufo Apr 2023 #75

(((((((((HUGS))))))))) UpInArms Apr 2023 #76

So sorry to hear about your pain. TdeV Apr 2023 #77

Hugs. Sending peaceful healing vibes. onecaliberal Apr 2023 #78

Sending love and peaceful vibes. sheshe2 Apr 2023 #79

As the days move forward, I hope you are filled peace and love. Fla Dem Apr 2023 #80

I'm very sorry that you're going through this. yardwork Apr 2023 #81

Sending all claudette Apr 2023 #82

I'm sorry that you're going through such a tough ordeal. Beacool Apr 2023 #83

Honoring and admiring your fortitude, will be holding you in the light! n/t KatK Apr 2023 #84

I hope that the pain gets managed asap!!!! and that Tumbulu Apr 2023 #85

Dying well, if that must be, is a part of living well. You seem to be very capable of that. Atticus Apr 2023 #86

When I start feeling sorry for myself I guess i'll just come here ratchiweenie Apr 2023 #87

I'm so sorry, Mark. highplainsdem Apr 2023 #88

Thank you so much, that does help SonofDonald Apr 2023 #95

{{{{{Mark}}}}} No, I can't imagine what you've been dealing with. Like others here, I'm in awe of highplainsdem Apr 2023 #110

Peace to you. Know that you are loved. cayugafalls Apr 2023 #89

Best Wishes Jazz Jon Apr 2023 #90

Wow! I'm sorry you are going through all this pain. Bluethroughu Apr 2023 #92

Sending healing for your shattered places wendyb-NC Apr 2023 #93

I'm very sorry to read of your pain and diagnosis. stollen Apr 2023 #94

Thank you for sharing your experiences with so much love and joy. mia Apr 2023 #96

Sending strong L🩵VE to you. There's no distance in the Spirit. sprinkleeninow Apr 2023 #98

I marvel at your calm in the face of this. DFW Apr 2023 #99

Good vibes vercetti2021 Apr 2023 #100

So very very sorry about this diva77 Apr 2023 #101

❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ Lucinda Apr 2023 #102

sending you good vibes. Hope the pain lets up BlueWaveNeverEnd Apr 2023 #103

I wish there was something I could offer other than murielm99 Apr 2023 #104

You are in my thoughts. Scottie Mom Apr 2023 #105

As one in medicine it is horrible that I am helpless to bring some alternative to you. I can only hlthe2b Apr 2023 #106

Oh I am so sorry. Sending you love and light and wishes for the LiberalLoner Apr 2023 #107

Live, laugh, love and cry The Jungle 1 Apr 2023 #109

Peace, love and light to you. 58Sunliner Apr 2023 #111

You are in our thoughts... CaptainTruth Apr 2023 #112

Thank you for your post. Sparkly May 2023 #118

Thank you for the good wishes SonofDonald May 2023 #119

I am so sorry. CrispyQ May 2023 #120

I'm sorry cate94 May 2023 #121

Always remember that your DU family loves you! colorado_ufo Jun 2023 #122

I am so sorry for your disease and pain. barbaraann Jun 2023 #123

Oh I am so so sorry, especially for the pain that isn't managed well, and for the bad news. LiberalLoner Jun 2023 #124

I don't know if this would interest you but Sparkly Jul 2023 #126

If there are any updates about SonofDonald, could we be apprised? Sparkly Jul 2024 #127

I'm confident you'll live to Elessar Zappa Aug 2024 #128