Cancer Support

"Though, I wonder, do people group up according to their diagnoses?"

For the most part I would say no, it really depends more on the person and how talkative they are about their disease, treatment and also the set up where one is receiving treatment (private treatment rooms or one large room, inpatient vs. outpatient) Almost all of my husband's chemo was inpatient so not too many other patients were nearby.

When we moved over to Hope Lodge and lived there for 100 days we hardly ever spoke of treatment once the basics of "why are you here" were established. In general we just tried to be supportive of one another and pass the time between visits to the hospital. Conversation drifted to current events, where to buy what, who is making what for dinner etc.

"I'm guessing I'm about to find out. That's another thing I wonder. Will I be able to be with him while he gets chemo?"

I would think you'll be able to stay with him, never heard of anyone being told to leave the room, wishing you the best during this challenging time.