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purr-rat beauty

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14. I am so sorry this haunts you

Tue Feb 11, 2025, 02:24 PM

Feb 2025

I think with the time you have left with those you love, share your gratefulness, reassurances, love. Let them know that you need your time to cope with this as well. Nobody should feel guilt for their own mortality, this is not your fault. I hope you find the help and support you deserve.

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Guilt [View all] Sparkly Jan 2025 OP

I wish I had some truly helpful answers, or at least suggestions, for you, niyad Jan 2025 #1

That is exactly what I need -- thank you! Sparkly Jan 2025 #2

You are most welcome. I am often up late ( this is not late), if you need niyad Jan 2025 #3

I felt similar with my family after my heart episode blm Jan 2025 #4

Thank you. Sparkly Jan 2025 #7

Please don't feel guilty. Frasier Balzov Jan 2025 #5

That perspective is reality, as well. Sparkly Jan 2025 #8

Some Thoughts PikaBlue Jan 2025 #6

WOW - thank you so very much for this!! Sparkly Jan 2025 #9

I love you, Sparkly XanaDUer2 Jan 2025 #10

I love you back Sparkly Jan 2025 #12

I do not know if this is helpful at all but the process of my mom's Maraya1969 Jan 2025 #11

I think I know what you mean Sparkly Jan 2025 #13

I am so sorry this haunts you purr-rat beauty Feb 2025 #14

Thank you. Sparkly Feb 2025 #15

Checking in, how are you? purr-rat beauty Feb 2025 #16

Kind of you to ask, thank you. Sparkly Mar 2025 #17

I'm sorry you are feeling guilt for something you have no control over Lifeafter70 May 31 #18