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Lifeafter70

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22. Yes he is finally sleeping
Wed Nov 5, 2025, 08:08 PM
Nov 2025

He is so relieved. Someone is actually listening to him. Pain docs are good but when it comes to cancer pain there are a lot of laws that limit what they can prescribe and how much. He has been on oxy for 10 years due to three recurrence of tumor growth. His pain doc thought he needed to lower his does during his last remission. When he had his third recurrence he wouldn't increase it cause he thought he was doing ok. ACC cells are microscopic and slow growing so it can take months before recurrence shows up on scan not the case for increased pain.
His hospice nurse explained that long time use like he had leads to tolerance and
uncontrolled pain. This leads to self
medicating in many paitents.
He is so relieved that someone takes his pain seriously and not treat him like he is just seeking drugs.

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It's going to be a long night [View all] Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 OP
🙌☮️🫶 godsentme Nov 2025 #1
Thank you Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 #18
Wishing both of you strength and peace and calm question everything Nov 2025 #2
Thank you he is in so much pain but refuses to go to the hospital Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 #4
Wishing you strength and peace at this difficult time. waterwatcher123 Nov 2025 #3
Sending strength to you and your family democrank Nov 2025 #5
I'm so sorry qanda Nov 2025 #6
.. BlueWaveNeverEnd Nov 2025 #7
Wish you the very best angrychair Nov 2025 #8
My uncle had hospice and they were truly wonderful Rhiannon12866 Nov 2025 #9
They were here today Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 #20
I am so sorry. murielm99 Nov 2025 #10
My heart goes out to you, your son, and all your loved ones. alwaysinasnit Nov 2025 #11
All my good energy to you and your family Randomthought Nov 2025 #12
Love and strength to all of you sdfernando Nov 2025 #13
Best hopes and wishes, I am so sorry irisblue Nov 2025 #14
Hospice nurses are the best. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #15
That is my hope Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 #16
See edit and thank you Irish Dem Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 #17
Yes I used to do some work with Hospice. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #19
Are the meds kicking in yet? Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #21
Yes he is finally sleeping Lifeafter70 Nov 2025 #22
Fabulous, he is sleeping. Irish_Dem Nov 2025 #23
Nothing really to add, except that I'll be praying for your son (and you). hamsterjill Nov 6 #24
from my heart to onethatcares Nov 19 #25
I'm sending you every positive thought i know Laurelin Nov 19 #26
Know that we are here to support you. OLDMDDEM Nov 19 #27
Holding you and your family in love and light. niyad Nov 19 #28
Dear, dear Lifeafter70, MLAA Nov 19 #29
So sorry fir your loss Lifeafter70 Nov 19 #30
There are no adequate words. JustinBulletin Nov 19 #31
Sending all my best to you Sparkly Nov 21 #32
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