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Lionessa

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4. My grandfather had a severe case for quite a while. And yes,
Thu Apr 12, 2012, 08:45 PM
Apr 2012

the Jekyll Hyde is somewhat normal. The hardest part for those around my grandfather seemed to be remembering he had no control over it. It wasn't his fault, and it's not your mom's. Just learn to dodge, try to keep a sense of humor, and never take it personally.

My fil had a more brief bout and he seemed better, but he was a drinker and by 3pm was pretty laid back and mil allowed him just enough the rest of the day to keep him that way.

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My mom charged me twice today [View all] EFerrari Apr 2012 OP
Caregivers have the hardest job Viva_La_Revolution Apr 2012 #1
I don't know anything about Alzheimer's and Mom only has medicare EFerrari Apr 2012 #2
I'm out of the loop here, what does your mom have? Neoma Apr 2012 #3
My grandfather had a severe case for quite a while. And yes, Lionessa Apr 2012 #4
Every person is different and will show different symptoms Viva_La_Revolution Apr 2012 #12
Last year I had the presence of mind to have her sign a release EFerrari Apr 2012 #13
gosh, went through that last year with my Mom. made me bone tired and soul weary Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2012 #5
Mom isn't on any meds right now. EFerrari Apr 2012 #6
my Mom had back surgery last year with complications from the anasthesia Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2012 #7
My mom is very healthy EFerrari Apr 2012 #8
oh gosh. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2012 #9
Thanks and good luck. EFerrari Apr 2012 #10
thanks and good luck to us all -- Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2012 #11
I'm so sorry libodem Apr 2012 #14
Yep. EFerrari Apr 2012 #15
hugs my friend mdmc Apr 2012 #16
good luck to you fizzgig Apr 2012 #17
I am sorry to hear this. momto3 Apr 2012 #18
The second part of this is that Mom has horse boarders here EFerrari Apr 2012 #19
I'm going to suggest that you call your local elderly services Marrah_G Apr 2012 #20
We're not there yet as Mum is good 95% of the time, for now. EFerrari Apr 2012 #21
hugssss Marrah_G Apr 2012 #22
I can't tell you how much that means to me. EFerrari Apr 2012 #23
how's it goin' out there? mopinko Apr 2012 #24
Slowly. I hope to have someone roto-til the garden part of my area today or tomorrow EFerrari Apr 2012 #25
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