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Showing Original Post only (View all)Are there any other DU'ers here who lost a parent (death) in childhood? [View all]
I am learning more and more these days how much this affects me as an adult. Ive always known I had certainly been affected by this, but the stresses of this past year have made this more pronounced.
I believe some of this has been positive in resulting in a better understanding. My mother died of cancer when I was eight.
Just wondering if there are other DUers who lost a parent in childhood who might want to share some thoughts and open a dialogue. My understanding is that children who were abused, abandoned, etc. experience much the same in adulthood as those who had a parent pass away, so that may be part of the discussion as well.
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Are there any other DU'ers here who lost a parent (death) in childhood? [View all]
hamsterjill
Mar 2021
OP
My two stepchildren lost their mother. A child psychologist told my husband their grades wouldn't
Karadeniz
Mar 2021
#2
Not exactly childhood, but my father died of cancer when I was in high school. I can't say...
TreasonousBastard
Mar 2021
#9
"Blame" might not be the best word. As with you, it's more a question of understanding. But...
TreasonousBastard
Mar 2021
#26
The fact you had a twin and he had you likely gave you both a combined strength you wouldn't have
No Vested Interest
Mar 2021
#30
I was not as young as my sister who was 8, I was 17 but I have had lots of abandonment issues
redstatebluegirl
Mar 2021
#21