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Mental Health Support

a kennedy

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8. Thank you..... I just can't believe this is where we are now......his bowel, his prostate and his weight.

Reply to vanlassie (Reply #6)

Wed Jul 7, 2021, 08:23 PM

Jul 2021

gonna find out our path ahead……..all I do is cry, he’s not the man he was 40 years ago when we married…..I’m not the woman either. It’s just dawning on me now that we’re OLD and health IS THE ONLY REASON WE’RE NOT AS WE WERE 40 YEARS AGO.

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So when do I get over feeling like it was my fault.... [View all] a kennedy Jul 2021 OP

Question. What would be your fault? vanlassie Jul 2021 #1

Because I didn't do enough to make it better for him....... a kennedy Jul 2021 #4

Sounds like nothing you COULD do, unless reason to think his docs not competent; elleng Jul 2021 #5

You did what you reasonably could? Given the fact that you are vanlassie Jul 2021 #6

Thank you..... I just can't believe this is where we are now......his bowel, his prostate and his weight. a kennedy Jul 2021 #8

Hard to hang onto your sanity in this situation. Wish you the very best of luck Walleye Jul 2021 #2

Sounds like you are doing your best. multigraincracker Jul 2021 #3

Try merilax for the bm prob questionseverything Jul 2021 #7

Sounds like you're doing what you can XanaDUer2 Jul 2021 #9

Eating like a baby would be the reason for losing 10 lbs., Croney Jul 2021 #10

I made a mistake, he weighs 121 pounds........ a kennedy Jul 2021 #11