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luvs2sing

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14. I'm right there with you.
Tue Sep 20, 2022, 12:09 PM
Sep 2022

In my case, I fell and fractured the head of my right humerus and had to have it surgically repaired. My arm was immobilized for a total of ten weeks and, now that I’m four months post-op, and well into physical therapy, my range of motion isn’t coming back as they had hoped.

My therapist asked me the same questions. I told her everything I liked to do, even if I hadn’t done it in ten years, thinking it would give me a better chance of healing. At this point, I can do maybe 75% of the things I like to do and need to do to function. The remaining 25% are iffy. I see the doc next week to plot out what the next steps will be.

I so understand feeling like a shell of a human. Lying on the couch, unable to do my favorite things (except read), having my husband have to do EVERYTHING, even help me dress and shower and, worst of all, not sleeping more than three or four hours a night damn near put me over the edge. But I got through it, and so will you. PM me if you need support. This is so fresh for me, my incision is barely healed.

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Oldbaldy, dayum up until the minute you hit the car that pulled out in front of YOU, MLAA Sep 2022 #1
The loss of biking has been one of the worst aspects of what happened. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #3
I had lots of orthopedic surgeries throughout my first 18 years. Most involved MLAA Sep 2022 #5
if it were me GenXer47 Sep 2022 #2
I also got a really deep wound to my right calf. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #4
Do you have home healthcare set up? They can send a wound care specialist a time or two a week. MLAA Sep 2022 #7
Nah... we are barely holding on as far as finances and such are concerned. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #9
I have both sympathy and empathy for your situation Wishful-Thinking Sep 2022 #6
Thanks. Also, 'malaise' should be my middle name. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #8
It's hard to focus on goals and desires when you're still actively dealing with injury and pain. enough Sep 2022 #10
Thanks. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #11
Not sure what to say XanaDUer2 Sep 2022 #12
Thanks OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #17
When I need ideas... Chalco Sep 2022 #13
Thanks for the suggestion. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #18
I'm right there with you. luvs2sing Sep 2022 #14
Thank you OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #19
well... markie Sep 2022 #15
Interesting that you mention one thing OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #20
I have no more ambition or goals, and I have never been happier. Midnight Writer Sep 2022 #16
I did not want to accomplish anything extraordinary. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #21
Just checking in with you today, oldbaldy1701E. MLAA Sep 2022 #22
Thanks. I am doing a tiny bit better. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #23
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