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LuckyLib

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9. At 92, my mother fell and broke her elbow. It was a
Tue Mar 7, 2023, 02:46 AM
Mar 2023

traumatic event, as she had to use a Life Alert system to summon help. The fire department had to break in to her garage where she had fallen. After transport, she had surgery. For days after she was paranoid, delusional, and could not communicate rationally. Doctors assured us that this was common, that each day would get better. She slowly got back to normal, and did not recall any of the strange behavior. Seven years later, (yes, she’s 99) she was recently hospitalized for a severe bladder infection. High doses of antibiotics and other medications produced the same behaviors—she was not herself. Anger, fear, paranoia, etc. It took almost a week until she began to calm down. Seroquel was prescribed. Fear in the elderly, even with a good support system, is difficult to deal with. The trauma of an accident or illness can be frightening for all involved.
Time will really help your husband. Take care and consult with nurses — they have seen it all.

I haven't had such experience. Good luck to you all. elleng Mar 2023 #1
Thanks, EllenG. He has COPD and most likely got dizzy & fell due to a low blood oxygen level. Ziggysmom Mar 2023 #3
Wouldn't he be on some pretty heavy drugs after a major surgery, like maybe morphine? Hugh_Lebowski Mar 2023 #2
I am sorry for what you both are going through. halobeam Mar 2023 #4
I hope it's temporary. calimary Mar 2023 #7
my mother had sedative available for nightmares. it worked the one time Tetrachloride Mar 2023 #5
I had a similar incident after my hip surgery Hamlette Mar 2023 #6
There's a condition called Hospital Psychosis littlemissmartypants Mar 2023 #8
Went through this when my Dad had emergency hip replacement. He did come out of it. Midnight Writer Mar 2023 #24
At 92, my mother fell and broke her elbow. It was a LuckyLib Mar 2023 #9
Not sure of claudette Mar 2023 #10
Similar for my dad years ago catchnrelease Mar 2023 #12
Yes claudette Mar 2023 #18
At 95, my dad broke his hip. BadgerMom Mar 2023 #11
Yes my mom went nuts after she was in emergency once. They added an anti psychotic to her meds at applegrove Mar 2023 #13
How old is your husband? ... n/t wackadoo wabbit Mar 2023 #14
He is older than me, 73. Hoping it can clear up and not be permanent. Now going Ziggysmom Mar 2023 #16
Mom fell and broke her ankle when she was 93. tanyev Mar 2023 #15
Sorry, but my 95 year old mother broke her hip in 2015. She had the surgery and by sinkingfeeling Mar 2023 #17
Yes, I had this exact reaction after my surgery. Grey Mar 2023 #19
Ziggysmom, how are things now? irisblue Mar 2023 #20
Hi irisblue. He remains agitated and confused. The physical therapists tried to work with Ziggysmom Mar 2023 #21
Oh Sweetie.... hugs... You got another person who can take care of you for today? irisblue Mar 2023 #23
Thanks, Dear. I took the afternoon off work and I'm resting with my two kitties Ziggysmom Mar 2023 #25
My mom had delirium 2 times after hospitalization Fresh_Start Mar 2023 #22
THANK YOU to everyone for the kind words and insight. Sounds like this problem is Ziggysmom Mar 2023 #26
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