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Mental Health Support

barbtries

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16. omigawd.

Reply to kozar (Original post)

Fri Aug 4, 2023, 08:58 PM

Aug 2023

I'm so sorry.

You will be able to advocate for her for all of the rest of your life kozar, to be certain that she gets all of the care that she needs.

you had no choice that's clear. and you're right, you do have to be okay with your decision, even if your shoulder made it for her. LilBit needs and deserves the best possible care.

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I need some help, part Deux [View all] kozar Aug 2023 OP

Oh my dear koz leftieNanner Aug 2023 #1

Dear Sir, I've rarely witnessed anyone care for family like you. You are an inspiration for many of Twoflower Aug 2023 #2

You did what is best for both of you, Koz. sheshe2 Aug 2023 #3

Wise move Lulu KC Aug 2023 #4

We struggled to solve issues with my parents as they aged. We had lots of great applegrove Aug 2023 #5

You had no choice Koz lillypaddle Aug 2023 #6

Holding you and Lilbit in my heart. TygrBright Aug 2023 #7

Oh koz hugs to you.. MiHale Aug 2023 #8

It's ok, I think kozar Aug 2023 #9

Hard decisions are always tough even when they're the right decisions. rubbersole Aug 2023 #12

Good decision, really bad feelings about it. AndyS Aug 2023 #10

What a tough choice, but you made the best call. pandr32 Aug 2023 #11

My heart goes out to you. Hope22 Aug 2023 #13

You love LilBit mgardener Aug 2023 #14

You could not take care of her, you chose to make sure she was safe TNNurse Aug 2023 #15

omigawd. barbtries Aug 2023 #16

I'm sure this is a good decision !! Will she live where you can visit? I've now become too weak to Karadeniz Aug 2023 #17

Thanks all! kozar Aug 2023 #18