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Laurelin

(667 posts)
15. I'm so sorry you're going through this
Sun Oct 27, 2024, 03:37 PM
Oct 2024

I euthanized a dog in February and a cat in July. I probably waited too long both times. It's a wrenching decision to make.

My daughter is a vet. She says to think of the 3 things your dog loves most. If he's still enjoying 2 of them it's not time to let go. If he's down to 1 it's time to consider if that one thing gives him a decent quality of life. If he's not enjoying any of those things it is definitely time to say goodbye. Obviously if the dog is in pain then let go soon; the pain will only get worse.

I think trying to have a truly wonderful day with over the top treats is good. My daughter suggested a burger and fries but I cooked chicken and French toast for the dog, and fresh salmon and tuna for the cat. I try to give every pet their very favorite food at the end, the one they'd steal from the counter if they got a chance, even if they were normally very well behaved.

Good luck with your decision. It's the worst. And godspeed to your puppy... and healing for those of you left behind.

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I know you want to time things when it is best for your beloved dog. So, I don't think it would help to be hlthe2b Oct 2024 #1
We have talked to her Bettie Oct 2024 #17
I wish you all the best... hlthe2b Oct 2024 #18
They will let you know lapfog_1 Oct 2024 #2
This. ms liberty Oct 2024 #5
We will all be there Bettie Oct 2024 #6
Our beloved Flat Coated Retriever let us know crimycarny Oct 2024 #27
there are vets who will do at home euthanasia.. samnsara Oct 2024 #29
I agree with this... slightlv Oct 2024 #24
I'm so sorry you and your dog are going though this. brer cat Oct 2024 #3
Very sorry to hear about this, Bettie True Dough Oct 2024 #4
I'm so sorry, Bettie. skylucy Oct 2024 #7
So sorry you are having to deal with this Farmgirl1961 Oct 2024 #8
I go with "quality of life". Is he happy? Is he showing enjoyment of life? Is he in obvious and severe pain? Midnight Writer Oct 2024 #9
If hes eating and happy to sse you, he feels good. Karadeniz Oct 2024 #10
So sorry, Bettie. piddyprints Oct 2024 #11
He does still enjoy his treats and Bettie Oct 2024 #16
I'm glad to meet a fellow Pyr lover, Bayard Oct 2024 #12
Make an appt in a week or two.....last appt of the day. alittlelark Oct 2024 #13
Every day is a blessing hot2na Oct 2024 #14
I'm so sorry you're going through this Laurelin Oct 2024 #15
Sorry to hear that, it's heartbreaking. wendyb-NC Oct 2024 #19
sorry for your loss. k55f5r Oct 2024 #20
It is hard to say goodbye to a family member LetMyPeopleVote Oct 2024 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author LetMyPeopleVote Oct 2024 #22
I'm so sorry. chowmama Oct 2024 #23
I'm sorry, but I disagree with your vet. She could amputate the leg with the cancer. sinkingfeeling Oct 2024 #25
I had a Boston Terrier named Louie and he was the best boy in the whole world. madaboutharry Oct 2024 #26
ive gone thru this so many times.. Im so sorry :( samnsara Oct 2024 #28
Holding you all in love and light in this very sad time. Please see if your vet niyad Oct 2024 #30
It's not easy, but I'm confident you will know. pat_k Oct 2024 #31
I am so sorry for all you, your family and your sweet dog are going through. You all will be in my thoughts. HeartsCanHope Nov 1 #32
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