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LGBT Civil Rights and Activism

BrienDoesIt

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14. What good is the progress if, in order to be protected by it, I have to take a vacation to get it?

Reply to ColinC (Reply #12)

Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:51 PM

Nov 2022

What if I can't afford to go 1-3 states away to get married? I'm guessing the only logical answer is "you're just fuckin shit out of luck". I'm not taking a jab at you, I mean that literally. The only answer is, "go to another state. If you can't, well hope you don't mind being left out of your partners hospital room". Lol

I agree this law makes strides, the strides don't mean near as much if I can't actually take advantage of them.

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Does this new law allow states to discriminate against gay people? [View all] BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 OP

Looking forward to this discussion. ShazzieB Nov 2022 #1

Here's a decent article on how things could play out. Solly Mack Nov 2022 #2

So it's exactly as I thought - it still allows states to discriminate. BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 #5

It offers federal protections but if Obergefell falls, states that want to discriminate can, yes Solly Mack Nov 2022 #6

I think the fed protections are a good thing. Very much so. BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 #7

That is one of the many questions - how it plays out on the state level Solly Mack Nov 2022 #8

No one I'm discussing this with gets that. BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 #9

You need to look at two cases: 1) as it is now and 2) if the SC over turns same sex marriage rights karynnj Nov 2022 #3

I'm not asking for this law to not go through.... BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 #4

It isn't a step backwards. Just a tiny step forward as laws go. ColinC Nov 2022 #10

But isn't it giving states the right to deny you a marriage license? BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 #11

It is. Which is how it is already as far as the laws on the books. ColinC Nov 2022 #12

What good is the progress if, in order to be protected by it, I have to take a vacation to get it? BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 #14

That's kinda how progress works unfortunately ColinC Nov 2022 #15

You're not wrong. At all. BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 #17

It is not a step backwards because it ONLY has consequence if the SC acts karynnj Nov 2022 #13

I guess I don't see it this way. BrienDoesIt Nov 2022 #16