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In reply to the discussion: Leaving for Benning 1/2/2018 [View all]

sarge43

(29,155 posts)
19. Former training instructor aka TI aka recruit wrangler aka No Neck Monster here.
Thu Dec 28, 2017, 09:52 AM
Dec 2017

Last edited Thu Dec 28, 2017, 02:13 PM - Edit history (1)

Some advice I've given youngin's about to swan dive into the shark pool:

1. Millions have done this and done it well. So will you. The odds are in your favor.

2. Those monsters want you to succeed. It's their job and it's enlighten self interest. Someday you may be steering the ship they're on, repairing that aircraft they're flying on, covering their back in some hell hole or taking care of their pay record. They want you to be very good at it.

3. The first couple of weeks are the toughest. You'll be convinced you can't make it. Then, it checks, falls into place and it all makes sense. Believe it or not, you'll probably look back and think it was kinda fun in a bizarre sort of way.

4. You will make mistakes. You will have a monster standing on your belt buckle, informing you s/he is quite disappointed in your performance. Stare at the point where their eyebrows are growing together and go to your happy place. The trick is to learn from it and don't keep repeating it. Whatever you do, do not smile. You can not win "You think I'm funny, troop?!" contest.

5. Cooperate and graduate. You can not succeed in basic or in "real world" by yourself. You're part of a unit now and when it succeeds, so will you. Sometimes that unit will be all you have.

6. Speaking of graduating. Sooner than you think you and your unit will be passing in review, taking the salute of Them What Be In Charge, and you all will come about a foot off the ground. You are now soldiers, sailors, airmen, marines or coast guardmen. Strut it. Ya done good.

7. Get all the education you can and put aside some money every month. Both will come in handy down the road.

Glad you were able to help this young man, TEB. democrank Dec 2017 #1
Oh I guess democrank TEB Dec 2017 #2
18 seems so very young. Scarsdale Dec 2017 #3
Thank you TEB Dec 2017 #4
i would be scared as well....glad you were there to help him. samnsara Dec 2017 #5
Its about the mind games... marcopolo63 Dec 2017 #6
Absolutely I filled him in TEB Dec 2017 #8
He will find out what he is made out of mercuryblues Dec 2017 #7
Thank you friend TEB Dec 2017 #9
LOL, Sand Hill alumni here! HAB911 Dec 2017 #10
Exactly he is worried over nothing TEB Dec 2017 #11
I went in on Feb 3, 73 and the very first thing I learned the first night - do not volunteer for... marble falls Dec 2017 #12
Never volunteer DashOneBravo Dec 2017 #24
Never ever but never volunteer in bootcamp. There are no Brownie points in Boot Camp. and precious.. marble falls Dec 2017 #26
Gotcha. Yeah never in initial training DashOneBravo Dec 2017 #27
Just a happy observation about changing times RVN VET71 Dec 2017 #13
I think it was because DashOneBravo Dec 2017 #25
I astonished myself at Fort Benning, May through July 1966 (Yes, I'm older than dirt) Glorfindel Dec 2017 #14
Yes TEB Dec 2017 #15
Sounds to me that the young man is very lucky to have you as a friend. Botany Dec 2017 #16
Thank you TEB Dec 2017 #17
Ah Sand Hill DashOneBravo Dec 2017 #18
Exactly I been telling him TEB Dec 2017 #20
What MOS is he going? DashOneBravo Dec 2017 #22
Oh man no way TEB Dec 2017 #23
Former training instructor aka TI aka recruit wrangler aka No Neck Monster here. sarge43 Dec 2017 #19
I told him TEB Dec 2017 #21
I went to basic training when I was 17 Victor_c3 Dec 2017 #28
He I feel is afraid of the unknown TEB Dec 2017 #29
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