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Lugnut

(9,791 posts)
7. My other half didn't either.
Fri Dec 16, 2011, 02:22 AM
Dec 2011

He would've worked until he was 70+ but he was forced into retirement by a work injury. He was a surface mining coal miner and his job occasionaly required physical labor. On the rare occasion that he had to use a sledge hammer he tore his rotator cuff. His doctor released him for light duty only but there's no such thing available at a mine.

It took about a year for him to accept his new lifestyle. He felt guilty about staying in bed past 5AM. He's still an early riser but he's more comfortable about pulling the covers up around his ears, rolling over and grabbing a few more winks before he crawls out of bed when the mood strkes him.

He, like you, has his daily list of To Do things. If it's a rainy day or he's just plain tired he's finally learned to let some things go until tomorrow. There's no time clock here to punch.

my father is 72. buys businesses to ensure he has a job seabeyond Dec 2011 #1
I would still be working but I was ready to have a breakdown. Place was a pressure hell hole. Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #5
If you like your work, why quit? bemildred Dec 2011 #2
I hated it Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #4
I loved my work, but was forced into retirement in 2010. RebelOne Jan 2012 #14
There is always volunteer work. bemildred Jan 2012 #15
And if those old enough to retire find it hard imagine those who are being laid off and cannot find jwirr Dec 2011 #3
I took to retirement like a duck to water. frebrd Dec 2011 #6
My husband is like that. Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #9
Me too! 25 years & and loving marybourg Dec 2011 #12
Thirteen years ago and I feel just like you. Love it. demosincebirth Jul 2012 #19
My other half didn't either. Lugnut Dec 2011 #7
I got called back to my old job a few years ago as they were short handed. Disaster! Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #10
I always loved working, and there are days when I really miss it. JDPriestly Dec 2011 #8
See my post above about trying to go back to your old job. Didn't work out for me at all Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #11
That's why we're getting Bill Moyers back on PBS in a couple weeks! housewolf Jan 2012 #13
Everone on this thread may wnat to consider Dyedinthewoolliberal Jul 2012 #16
It used to be possible tru Jul 2012 #17
I've never been happier DavidDvorkin Jul 2012 #18
I have always been a lazy bastard so I love being retired. mysuzuki2 Jul 2012 #20
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