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Pobeka

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7. In a 3 day retirement seminar, only 1 day spent on financials.
Mon Apr 5, 2021, 06:00 PM
Apr 2021

2 days spent asking *how* do you want to live your life in retirement?

Large part focusing on how to stay active -- pointing out that going to the gym is not going to work for most people because they get bored and quit, get involved in something that requires semi-rigorous exercise -- like bicycling, mountain hiking (strolls along the beach don't really count), canoeing, kayaking, maintaining a large garden, snowshoing, skiiing, ...

We love the out of doors and are fortunate to have mountains for hiking and backpacking just a couple of hours away. I also volunteer at the national parks working on trails when we're not in a pandemic.

Social interaction -- consider volunteering, or part-time work, or just working longer than you planned if you like your current work.

Marital interaction -- "married until death" does not mean 24/7. Spend time in separate activities and social networks too.

Where you want to live is certainly important, but consider what it might mean to lose current interactions with local friends and having to start over making new connections if you move far away.

For us, travel is important (not travel to visit relatives) -- gives us something to dream about, then start planning for, do, and then have memories of and share our experience with friends and relatives.

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What were you thinking? [View all] bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 OP
I did a post career plan jmbar2 Apr 2021 #1
THAT is a marvelous list!!!! MyOwnPeace Apr 2021 #3
I'd actually love that jmbar2 Apr 2021 #4
What I ended up doing jmbar2 Apr 2021 #5
Oh, and I moved to Oregon from Texas to retire jmbar2 Apr 2021 #6
I could see...... MyOwnPeace Apr 2021 #9
LOL - so true! jmbar2 Apr 2021 #12
How soon are you to retirement? I retired 3 months ago. I'm pretty much like you. Not Gaugamela Apr 2021 #2
Well, that's part of the problem bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #17
In a 3 day retirement seminar, only 1 day spent on financials. Pobeka Apr 2021 #7
Good points jmbar2 Apr 2021 #14
Your question is not insane at all. It is a good question. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #8
OK, gotta' ask! MyOwnPeace Apr 2021 #10
To conduct a DNA search, we need a large DNA database which contains the DNA of as many people as Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #11
What a wonderful use of your intellect and time! jmbar2 Apr 2021 #13
Years ago I got interested in genealogy and traced my own family lines. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #16
Yes on the genealogy bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #19
The French priests in Quebec kept impeccable records, they were paid per document. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #20
Recently I found him on Geni bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #22
Denys Duquet dit DesRochers was one of the original founders of Quebec. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #24
Yes, that agrees with genealogists bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #25
There are quite a few FC geneologists, amateur and professional. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #26
Interesting, because like you bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #18
What will I do with the time? 3Hotdogs Apr 2021 #15
sigh,,,, planning,,,,, KarenS Apr 2021 #21
Thanks to all, gave me some ideas bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #23
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