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Sat Sep 2, 2023, 05:42 PM Sep 2023

Digital Ageism [View all]

My cell phone started ringing just as I turned the key in my front door. George, my dear friend and neighbor in downtown Los Angeles, was calling. We had just shared a celebratory lunch, and an unwelcome surprise awaited him when he returned to his apartment. Building management had installed a new digital lock on his front door while we were out. And he didn't have the code. On the eve of his 90th birthday, George found himself shut out of his long-time home. I rushed across the plaza that separates our buildings. I had a hunch what must have occurred.

Building management, it seemed, had been alerting tenants about the upcoming change via email and text — methods of communication my friend didn't use. As his eyesight had been faltering, George hadn't been getting online much lately. His sole lifeline to the world was his ever-ringing flip phone.

In the name of efficiency, more companies are driving customers to conduct business digitally. QR codes for menus in restaurants. COVID-19 vaccines scheduled exclusively online. Apps for everything, from banking to health care to travel to routine maintenance requests. The presumption that everyone's life is fully digital — and that everybody is, or wants to be, comfortable with screens — shuts out many who may not be deft with the technology, or even have access to it.

(snip)

Well, he shrugged, she probably couldn't. Then, he called up a temporary code that allowed us to enter George's unit. Inside, we logged onto his email, and retrieved the company-assigned digits that would now serve as his lock. They hadn't even paid for the upgrade that allowed you to choose your own code. George panicked. How would he remember these random series of numbers, much less punch them in on a tiny keypad? "Can't I just have a key?" George asked, pointing to the old-fashioned keyhole above the keypad. "There's no way I'll remember that, much less be able to see those numbers."

(snip)

Later on, I, along with George's daughter — a lawyer who lives in a different city — composed stern emails to management explaining the severity of having locked a tenant out of his apartment — and installing a system that was challenging for him to navigate. The next morning, the friendly maintenance man appeared at the front door of George's apartment — old-fashioned key in hand. George was happy, and relieved, at this work-around that relieved him from digital jail.

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Digital Ageism [View all] question everything Sep 2023 OP
I do not have a cell phone cyclonefence Sep 2023 #1
You bring up a good point. usonian Sep 2023 #5
I fully sympathize with the 'digital coupons' gadgetry! 70sEraVet Sep 2023 #8
After awhile my wife was able to master the digital coupon crap. Mr.Bill Sep 2023 #13
I get a daily email from the grocery store crud Sep 2023 #23
🍷 Joinfortmill Sep 2023 #29
I was visiting my daughter's place. usonian Sep 2023 #2
Whew! So glad they accommodated George! MLAA Sep 2023 #3
I yelled at a Rite Aide clerk (I'm sorry still) Grasswire2 Sep 2023 #38
Was anyone ever able to explain why they didn't/couldn't honor their advertising? MLAA Sep 2023 #39
No. And I yelled because there were two or three staffers there at the time. Grasswire2 Sep 2023 #40
Crazy! MLAA Sep 2023 #41
I have a story about this too. My stepdad, who is 89, Croney Sep 2023 #4
I finally asked my daughter-in-law to deal with two apps I had a terrible time with. Delmette2.0 Sep 2023 #6
When your sight goes, EVERYTHING goes Warpy Sep 2023 #7
So sorry about this. The world is aimed at everyone functions with slight correction question everything Sep 2023 #10
I haven't turned a TV on in over a year. Warpy Sep 2023 #15
Wife sits real close to the TV Aussie105 Sep 2023 #18
I'm not challenged by the digital shift -- byronius Sep 2023 #9
I can beat the 'old' part! Aussie105 Sep 2023 #19
So familiar. The smallest things take up more room. byronius Sep 2023 #36
I draw the line at digital coupons The Wizard Sep 2023 #11
Streaming services AverageOldGuy Sep 2023 #12
It's the new way . . . Aussie105 Sep 2023 #20
So glad your friend Georgecna again open his door with a key. We should have choices in things. nt iluvtennis Sep 2023 #14
My generational beef with these young people's obsession with smartass phone. lambchopp59 Sep 2023 #16
Now my medical groups' portal has been srewwed multigraincracker Sep 2023 #17
I must admit paying car registration on line Aussie105 Sep 2023 #21
the management company f*d up.... Lithos Sep 2023 #22
I generally spend a few hours each week crud Sep 2023 #24
Yeah, that happens Lithos Sep 2023 #30
What I'm sick of is constantly being bugged to download yet another app. ShazzieB Sep 2023 #25
Glad this had a happy ending. LoisB Sep 2023 #26
My beef is with the companies that think they don't need a browser app, just a phone app teach1st Sep 2023 #27
Hmmm - a couple of questions Lithos Sep 2023 #31
The attachments are PDF teach1st Sep 2023 #33
Same here. My iPhone, which I got less than three years ago, is for calling, texting question everything Sep 2023 #34
Happy ending. You are a good friend. Joinfortmill Sep 2023 #28
Unless their name is Lisa Napoli Lithos Sep 2023 #32
... question everything Sep 2023 #35
Good article. This entire thread should be sent to AARP. IcyPeas Sep 2023 #42
Context is everything ;) Pluvious Sep 2023 #37
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