Think before you ask this question. It can make some minorities feel like they don't belong. [View all]
http://www.cnn.com/interactive/2017/08/opinion/where-im-really-from/
NO, Where are you really from? Before you were born?
Where are you from? No, where are you really from? Its a small question that gets asked every day. The question can be off-putting to some people and theres a reason why: Its personal. It can make people on the receiving end feel like they really dont belong. It can be a harmless ask, but it often depends on the context and whos asking.
About 2,000 people shared their experiences with us on social media with #whereimreallyfrom. From a woman asked about her ethnicity at a job interview to a man told to go back to his own country (hes American), the experiences are as diverse as the people who shared them. Here are some of their many stories, as told in their own words.
Good stuff about questioning someone's loyalty to our country, which is important for many jobs that require security clearances.
Or making someone prove their ethnicity if they don't "look American" or if they are ethnically ambiguous/mixed and have some obligation answer questions from some random curious stranger.
Then there are people who are just too stupid to know that Americans are diverse or that Puerto Ricans are US citizens, or it's more of a deliberately malicious crab-barreling to see if you quietly accept it like a foreigner or fight hard for your rights like a real American.
Either way, think how you would feel if people decided that you were from Europe or Africa regardless of the typos on your passport that spell out the words "United States of America".
Some of my fellow DUers understand that I'm on super exclusive type of H-1B visa for people born in America with exceptionally fake accents and are involved in a multi-generational job stealing scheme that my grandparents carefully planned out decades ago. Just like Obama's fake birth certificate and newspaper announcements.
My parents and I enjoyed an idiotic conversation with a CBP employee (not a uniformed agent) recently who insisted we couldn't possibly have CBP global entry because it's only for US citizens (it's not, and we are). It blew his mind as he watched us calmly scan our passports in the machines, got our global entry passes, and handed it to the uniformed agent and entered our own country. Some people like to wallow neck deep in their own bullshit and get brain damage from inhaling the fumes.
And yes, I know the vast majority of DUers reading this are woke and don't need it. It's a good read and several people have shared their stories. If even one person reads it and gets woke, it has made a difference to everyone that person meets.
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