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JustAnotherGen

(33,785 posts)
6. See my response down below
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 01:01 PM
Jun 2016

It's not unusual for Sunday dinner in my family to include the wealthy and the poor. We aren't one step on the economic ladder.

Also - I *think* we are more likely due to history in America - to not throw people away.

We have some elderly Aunts who we make sure they have what they need. If someone has a baby as a teenager - we pull together. If someone is having a hard time financially- we pull together.

Black folks tend to not 'reach out'. Pride is important. So I know in my family I just FORCE the help.

We are tail end GM's with the vast majority spread out through Talladega to Birmingham. All of us raised in NY and PA and Michigan - with the exception of a cousin in Detroit and her Mom - are either in NJ/NYC, AL, GA, or Houston. We don't say -

You are poor so you aren't a member of the family and we don't look out for you.


ETA - the wealthy, rich and affluent are probably far more apart than you imagine (Race wise). When I look at my circle of friends with my husband - we are pretty diverse with the majority of whites (couples and or singles) either being Jewish or European Immigrants. We have very few WASPS (maybe one couple) in our circle - and they are Liberals.

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Maybe to an extent, but having first hand experience, I'd say income has more of an effect tonyt53 Jun 2016 #1
So your family wasn't family JustAnotherGen Jun 2016 #4
Say what? Where'd you get that. We had a support network of people just like us - poor. tonyt53 Jun 2016 #5
See my response down below JustAnotherGen Jun 2016 #6
oh yes swhisper1 Jun 2016 #2
Yep - I think I posted about this previously JustAnotherGen Jun 2016 #3
Because "White people" is not an ethnic group elljay Jun 2016 #7
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2016 #8
When the economy goes sour, black people feel it more and therefore there may be a collective Liberal_Stalwart71 Jun 2016 #9
Yep. I do. And for alot of the reasons that you already noted. Number23 Jun 2016 #10
this is true of all minority groups JI7 Jun 2016 #11
All I can say is when white people get into a room, or neighborhood, or county, rusty quoin Jun 2016 #12
i think it's different life experience but white is seen as the norm. not just conservatives JI7 Jun 2016 #13
Yeah, that's the thing. rusty quoin Jun 2016 #15
Growing up in NYC it's always been the opposite. I remember visiting NJ or Wisconsin and feeling bettyellen Jun 2016 #16
White Privilege rusty quoin Jun 2016 #18
You nailed it. I think it'll be strange seeing sexism's big resurgence with HRC bettyellen Jun 2016 #21
+1 uponit7771 Jun 2016 #20
In many black families, getting into the middle class is recent history ... kwassa Jun 2016 #14
Excellent post Kwassa n/t JustAnotherGen Jun 2016 #19
Historically until very recently Chitown Kev Jun 2016 #17
Absolutely ismnotwasm Jun 2016 #22
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