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brer cat

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6. I think the most critical agent for change
Thu Jul 14, 2016, 07:38 AM
Jul 2016

will be white people confronting other white people over racism, and yes, it must happen over and over. JRLeft was courageous, but it was a dangerous situation; we all know it could have ended with the truck driver pulling out a gun.

It is very hard to get people to come out of their shell and speak up, especially in situations where there is perceived danger in confronting someone who is belligerent. I am a 69 year old woman, and I would not have even considered chasing down the driver who profiled JRLeft. Whether it is lack of courage or too much common sense, I don't think I would ever be that aggressive.

I am willing to speak up in other settings, although I often find myself hesitating when confronting a stranger. I believe that repetition is key for me, that I will reach the point where I am reacting without that moment where I stop to think "do I really want to get involved in this?" If not me, then who? needs to be first in my mind.

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Taking the stand you did is Mira Jul 2016 #1
I never bite my tongue,I'm going to say what needs to be said. JRLeft Jul 2016 #2
Afraid of what? rusty quoin Jul 2016 #3
When they see dark skin, they're afraid to approach us. JRLeft Jul 2016 #4
I think the most critical agent for change brer cat Jul 2016 #6
I understand, you have to protect yourself. I'm a lot younger than you and I do not expect everyone JRLeft Jul 2016 #8
Standing up to bullies is the way to go brer cat Jul 2016 #10
I've been followed in stores, had white women grab their children, clutch their purses, JRLeft Jul 2016 #11
I have seen all of the above brer cat Jul 2016 #12
I confront it every time. I tell those women, I don't want your kid or you. JRLeft Jul 2016 #13
You were brave but that is a scary situation. He could shoot you and then claim you tblue37 Jul 2016 #5
He could have and he would have gotten away with it even though there JRLeft Jul 2016 #9
I applaud your courage 90-percent Jul 2016 #7
You're right, we need more white people to help confront it. JRLeft Jul 2016 #14
It is my hope that, awoke_in_2003 Jul 2016 #15
More cameras are good, police aggression is out of control as well as vigilante white people. JRLeft Jul 2016 #16
This country has always been crazy awoke_in_2003 Jul 2016 #17
I seriously cannot believe that (white) people can say with a straight face YoungDemCA Jul 2016 #20
They don't believe that, they use it as a shield, to hide their racism. JRLeft Jul 2016 #21
People like him will never treat you with anything approaching respect greiner3 Jul 2016 #18
My hope is to make him think instead falling back on prejudices/fears. JRLeft Jul 2016 #19
testicular material heaven05 Jul 2016 #22
Ditto, to you. Confrontation is needed, we should not allow them to portray us as convicts. JRLeft Jul 2016 #23
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