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Jamaal510

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24. It's interesting because
Sat Jul 16, 2016, 06:12 PM
Jul 2016

I was talking with my older sister a few weeks ago about the "it could be worse" view, and she said that of course it could always be worse unless you're dead, but she doesn't think it helps solve whatever problem a person is facing. I think it's possible to do both. I try to make the most out of bad situations and work to get myself out of holes.

As far as my driving situation goes, there are 2 things setting me back: a lack of money for driving lessons (lessons cost $130 each) and for buying a car, and my nervousness behind the wheel. A few years ago I had a used Porsche, but it was stolen out of my family's front yard while we were gone. I also had a used Cutlass, but it was totaled when someone drove too fast down a hill and hit our house during a rainy day. I've had to devote money towards school, bills, rent, and groceries the past few years, and haven't been able to save up.

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AA Group: How are yall feeling? [View all] Quayblue Jul 2016 OP
It's been a traumatic week for the whole country. Two deaths have been overshawdowed . . . brush Jul 2016 #1
Staying in touch with family in BTR. Donated to the bail fund for protesters. KeepItReal Jul 2016 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author rbrnmw Jul 2016 #3
Numb... FrenchieCat Jul 2016 #4
I don't know how I'm feeling right now Coolest Ranger Jul 2016 #5
Disconnected, Cleaned up my Social Media Friend List lib87 Jul 2016 #6
Willfully ig'nant. I like that. kwassa Jul 2016 #15
I feel you. Quayblue Jul 2016 #21
I'm feeling neutral about life. Jamaal510 Jul 2016 #7
I love the sweet innocence of this post. Number23 Jul 2016 #17
It's interesting because Jamaal510 Jul 2016 #24
Feeling frustrated, as ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2016 #8
^ This, trying not to lash out but I refuse to make white people feel comfortable. JRLeft Jul 2016 #9
right let them feel uncomfortable hell with them rbrnmw Jul 2016 #10
They need to make changes JRLeft Jul 2016 #11
and they probably won't change if they aren't umcomfortable rbrnmw Jul 2016 #12
Uncomfortable is real good, make them sweat. JRLeft Jul 2016 #13
yes we do rbrnmw Jul 2016 #14
Yep, not doing more seems to be doing nothing. JRLeft Jul 2016 #16
Fuck 'em, feeling uncomfortable is the only way change comes. cyberpunk Jul 2016 #18
I'm tired of being the shit at the bottom of the barrel. JRLeft Jul 2016 #23
Actions speak louder than words for damn sure. Quayblue Jul 2016 #22
In one word? JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #19
Tired, numb. cyberpunk Jul 2016 #20
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