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SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
1. Take a deep breath.
Sun Mar 11, 2012, 10:01 PM
Mar 2012

Now take another one.

Think about the forthcoming changes, and look ahead a week or so, or whenever these changes and the move are underway. Focus on the good all this will bring. . . . Take all the time you need to fill in the details. Make it as rich and vivid as you wish. . . .


Now take another deep breath, and look farther ahead, to when all of these changes are completed, and you're in your new life in the new location. Focus on all that good that has happened so far, how living again in this place is just right for both of you, how many opportunities for work are presenting themselves. See how positive all this has been. Fill in all the details that you need to make this as rich and complete as it needs to be. Take all the time you need to do so . . . .

Now take another deep breath, and let it out, knowing that you've made the right choices, and that you will go ahead with this new life and it will be right for you.

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Well, friends.... [View all] teenagebambam Mar 2012 OP
Take a deep breath. SheilaT Mar 2012 #1
Thanks for this. Delphinus Mar 2012 #2
Yes, sometimes kimmerspixelated Mar 2012 #6
Well said, agreed. kimmerspixelated Mar 2012 #5
instead of trying to "shut out" the terrifying "what ifs" magical thyme Mar 2012 #3
You can't help but be at the right place at the right time The Blue Flower Mar 2012 #4
Another wise post! kimmerspixelated Mar 2012 #7
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