(JEWISH GROUP) My 7-Year-Old Was The Target Of An Antisemitic Joke. Here's What I Told Him. [View all]
Dad, do I have short arms?
The question came from my 7-year-old son during one of our morning drives to school. As a divorced father with limited time with my twins, these car conversations were usually a highlight of my week. But not this one.
All Jews have short arms, he continued. Thats why they cant reach their wallets.
I slowed down the car, my heart pounding as I processed what Id just heard. These were the same antisemitic jokes I had faced decades earlier.
What might seem like casual jokes can have harmful effects on childrens development. Children exposed to discrimination can experience emotional challenges that affect their self-esteem and ability to form healthy relationships, Reena B. Patel, a parenting expert and licensed educational board-certified behavior analyst, told HuffPost. These encounters can trigger a domino effect, impacting everything from academic performance to social relationships and even physical health.
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