Bereavement

I had blood in my urine and it took them forever to find that I had a viral infection from unknown causes. They also found out I had very very early cancer and took care of that poof. So although I went through a few diagnosis until they found the virus. it did help that they found the cancer, never would have looked for it and it was not causing the bleeding and in an unrelated area.

Note: when I got divorced, settled up front, never have to see or speak to each other again --- but he is a lazy procrastinator and I keep getting some of his IRA info in the mail, so I called the bank and he never changed survivor benefits over to his new wife (20 years ago! wife) - what to do????